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decide witch one you want to pursue and go for just tell the other one what your doing tell him your just not interested in him

follow your heart and please by all means stay in school or you might misspell something

If you are so unsettled right now that you cannot be in a relationship with one person without being tempted by someone else, then I would seriously suggest you consider taking a break from all relationships for a while. Forget about both boys, and assess what it is that is making you react like this.

When you get involved with someone, you have a responsibility to behave honestly and respectfully toward that person. If you are even considering trading up on your current SO, with whom things are ‘goin good’, then you should take a long hard look at your motives. Wait a while. Take some time for yourself. Figure out what it is that you do want, and what you don’t want. And when you’re ready, jump back in.

Boys will still be there when you are ready.

Why can’t you help but go back to the old guy, if he’s treated you badly? Is that what you’re saying, or am I misunderstanding?

Personally, I would feel I owed it to someone I was involved with to make an indpendent choice about whether I was going to continue being with him. It’s going to hurt him a lot more if you dump him and start dating this new guy than if you just break it off with him, because it’s not right for you to be in that relationship. Getting dumped for someone else always hurts more than just being told the relationship isn’t working.

Then it seems like you are going to have to talk to him about how you feel, or you’ll probably have to walk away eventually to keep yourself from getting hurt. If you can, tell him how you feel (with a few specific examples of things that were not okay for you), and see how he responds. If he can’t/doesn’t give you what you need, then you should step back, and when you are ready, find it elsewhere.

You are worth someone who respects and wants every part of you — the part of you that’s good for a laugh and a good time, and the part of you that needs a little nurturing and TLC. You deserve that, and you should never, ever, settle for less.

Judith I think that if you had a rock friendship with the guy that you got a little close with. I think that is all you are meant to be is friend. And that is what you should tell him and if he doesn’t want to talked to you after that it means he wasn’t much of a friend to begin with then. If the other guy the one you like isn’t;t in to fun like the other guy you should hang out with him because at least you wouldn’t be pushed in to something you aren’t quite ready for.