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So I have been dating this guy.
He is five years older then me. He is an amazing incredible guy, he is always respectful and nice towards me and is always willing to take care of me. However, its frustrating he is so much more experienced then me. Like maturity wise we are very similar but it is frustrating cause his ex and him were together for two years and they were engaged and she got pregnant but he found out it wasn’t his and thats why he left. I also lost my virginity to him so its annoying because I feel like he is such a huge part of my life and I feel so insignificant in his. So I’m constantly getting jealous of that and have built of anger towards him. I also have grown resentful since I lost all of my friends since dating him, not necessarily because of him but he was the catalyst for the inevitable. But since im with him all the time i havn’t had a chance to make new friends. And now he is moving into an apartment with this girl who is really pretty and seems weirdly excited about it and this is extra upsetting cause if he leaves me I have noone so now im constantly stressed and i mentioned my nerves to him and he felt bad and offered to move in with someone else but i said no cause i felt like i would be a bad girlfriend to make him adjust his living arrangements for me. But secretly I’m really really upset about the whole thing and I keep finding myself considering leaving him and I’m always super stressed out.
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