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Killing yourself is never a good option. You never know what could have happened to you in your life. If you die..you won’t know anything. But if you try your hardest and find something you love..it’ll be amazing :) If you find some kind of hobby..maybe play some sort of sport or maybe go find some friends or something so you could hang out and do all sorts of fun things that could make you possibly/probably lose weight! Just think about how losing your weight would help your body and eat lots of vegetables. Most people shouldnt care about what’s wrong with their un-perfect skin. I have warts. I don’t listen to what anybody says! People always say things like “Ew that’s a f***in nasty wart dude!” “Omg dude what the hell is wrong with you?!” and I just say “It’s a wart get over it, and if you don’t you’ll have ‘em all over your face after I sock you” and I just deal with it. Nobody has a perfect life and we just gotta live with lifes difficulties.

1)i cant wear t shirts because i have gynomastia
–>Sign up with a gym, train your chest and build muscle. But if you got more mammary glands than fat then consider surgery.
2)i cant have a decent haircut because i am receeding
—>Shave your head and grow a beard, looks good anc much better than receeding hairline.
3)i have hereditary dark circles under my eyes that make me look old and ugly
–>dark circles under ones eyes don’t automaticallt make a person look old and ugly. It’s just your perception.
4)i have terrible complexion, spotty, uneven skin
–> get a tan and go to the gym.
5)i have mild depression and am never happy
–>Visit a psychologist/psychiatrist, get into counselling and/or take some antidepressants.
6)i have a terrible posture but can’t correct it because of gyno
–>Visit a doc, get examined and follow the course of treatment.
7)i have really bad allergies
–>Then just don’t use those things that you’re allergic to.
8)everything stresses me out
–>Be calm, minimize stress levels, meditate, do art therapy.
9)im going to uni but im 25 and will be a lot older than everyone else and am so unhappy with my physical appearence i wont fit in
–> You’re going to the uni to learn, not to fit in, have fun and socialize a lot. Be glad that you can go there; I, for example, never will be able to afford a university… and hundreds of millions of other people on this planet can’t also. But you can!
10)i am always tired
Eat healthy food, get adequate amounts of rest.
11)i am skinny fat and cant buy decent clothes
–> go to the gym.
12)there is never anything to do
*what does that means exactly? If you have nothing to do then get a hobby.
13)i feel like ive wasted the best years of my life
–>There is no such thing as “best years of ones life”. Every year can be the best if you would choose to believe it.
14)i feel constantly boxed in, there is no solution to any of this except cosmetic surgery which i cant afford
–>If you can’t afford something right away then either save or get a loan. Or in your case - go to the gym.
15)should i just kill myself? i think about it alot
–>No. Your problems have solutions.