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She is shell shocked, she saw you as a certain person, then you dropped a bomb on her, and your expecting it not to bother her. Unfortunately it does seem to bother her. You need to talk to her, show her your the person she knew before you told her, that nothing has changed.

Yeah I stopped with the ecstasy though and i’ve been clean. Just the pain killers i’ve been prescribed for most of my year(i’m 19 now) I coudln’t put down. I’ll try to but how?

She is surprised and is probably just taken back a little. Give her some time to warm up to you again and realize that you are the same person you have just let her in on your past. You could have also lost her trust. Just try and give her some space.

If you still do drugs she has a reason to be that way. She can’t help you you will only destroy yourself and maybe her with you. In other words she’s smart. I tried to help many on drugs, spent a lot of time and money doing so. Only to see them fail me. I know 1 now that would love to be a part of my life and I would love to have her but I’ve seen her fail 3 times can’t trust her or anyone that has that problem. In the old days pot and meths people could get away from it but CRACK forget it that’s a monster no one can kill it only KILLS. Good luck whatever the case.

People who do drugs need to FIX THEMSELVES before they go out looking for relationships.

People know that drug addicts put their drugs above all else. THAT’S why people normally steer clear of drug addicts.

Get help and get yourself clean, and then start to think about relationships!

I promised her i’d be true with her. I really was the only thing was the drug use. I never cheated or even look at anyone the same way. They don’t mean a thing to me, except I feel like it was just as bad as cheating or something.

Make yourself complete . . . and then you will have no issues about YOURSELF when you are looking for a lifemate!

Get rid of the things that pull you down, like drugs.

Remember, her caution is justified. That’s a lot to deal with. And it’s generally known that the successful rehabilitation rate is a meager 2 percent or so.

That’s why so many people insist that a “reformed” drug user show that he/she has been “clean” for at least two years before they’d consider dating them.