Love help: would it be weird to get in touch with an old girlfriend i haven’t see for 3 years?

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would it be weird to get in touch with an old girlfriend i haven’t see for 3 years?

I was in love with this girl but never had the guts to tell her, we went are own ways after college when we were 18, and we have briefly been in touch around birthdays and things since then.

I still feel like we should be together, but i don’t want to seem desperate or come on to strong or something like that, especially when i haven’t seen her for so long.

What is the best way to go about getting in touch and meeting up? Or should i just get over it?

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Tenori Taiga 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 minute after post)

just be casual, ask her what shes been up too ask her if she’d like to meet up and catch up with you,

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Always griffin 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Not at all, she may be thinking of you too :)

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Dr. Ozy 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (10 minutes after post)

you can say hi, but if you tell her that you love her, she’s probably going to think that you’re crazy. she’s probably not even the same person you knew when she was 18.
just be casual and establish a connection. learn about each other and see if it goes anywhere from there.

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Dr. Ralph 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Call her up, tell her you always had a crush on her, and ask her if she would like to have dinner next weekend. Make it a nice place, know when and where you are going before you ask and make your intentions clear.

If you don’t get turned down for dates, you aren’t asking out classy enough women…

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Dr. Ozy 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Dr. Ralph wrote:
If you don’t get turned down for dates, you aren’t asking out classy enough women…

i love the little bits of insight that you share. ;]

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walksuphill 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

Ozylogist wrote:
you can say hi, but if you tell her that you love her, she’s probably going to think that you’re crazy. she’s probably not even the same person you knew when she was 18.
just be casual and establish a connection. learn about each other and see if it goes anywhere from there.

Agreed

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Always griffin 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 days after post)

ok, it’s been a while DID YOU??
if so how’d it go??

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