Love help: I must not fear. - Help.com

I must not fear.

Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.
Bene Gesserit Litany Against Fear.

This open post was written 1 year, 11 months ago | V/U/S: 912, 19, 4 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post


Reciprocity (0) Reciprocation Failure -- The poster has NOT helped anyone else yet!

Since writing this post ~AGAPE~ may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days. ~AGAPE~ is a verified member, has been around for 3 years, 8 months and has 315 posts and 7,485 replies to their name.

Post Tags (7)

Replies (19)

Where were you?

Click and drag to move the map around. FAQ: How we place people on this map »
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happen
Mouse over the map for 2 seconds to see an expanded, interactive view

Baron Scary offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 minute after post)

hi, no worries, tomorrow is a new day :)

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: tell me something.
~AGAPE~ offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (4 minutes after post)

:`(
Thanks Cat my depression is kicking my butt right now…

Pyro the Cat wrote:
hi, no worries, tomorrow is a new day :)

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Agape Love
Baron Scary offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I’m just crawling out of a pit of despair that i’ve been in for a few weeks. i’m on my way back up at the moment, but i know i will end up in another pit in a few weeks. gotta enjoy the ups while they’re there.
I know that now sucks for you and i wish i could help, just remember that it is only right now that it sucks. things will get better. i started exercising again, thats what pulled me out of it recently… or maybe i was just feeling better enough to exercise again.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: tell me something.
~AGAPE~ offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Vanished wrote:
Take ur rope and hands you a ray of sunshine.

Thank you that is sweet..

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Agape Love
~AGAPE~ offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Pyro the Cat wrote:
I’m just crawling out of a pit of despair that i’ve been in for a few weeks. i’m on my way back up at the moment, but i know i will end up in another pit in a few weeks. gotta enjoy the ups while they’re there.
I know that now sucks for you and i wish i could help, just remember that it is only right now that it sucks. things will get better. i started exercising again, thats what pulled me out of it recently… or maybe i was just feeling better enough to exercise again.

Thanks that is something that helps me too, I will definitely do it when I get a chance. I hurt my foot so it is hard to walk right now on it, but not impossible.
I am so glad to hear that you understand and sorry at the same time that you do, because that means you have the same crap to deal with in your head. But I feel less alone with when I hear from other people. It really is like a pit isn’t it, I certainly will try to pull up and out of it, I usually do not come on here down, thanks for caring.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Agape Love
Baron Scary offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (20 minutes after post)

hmm a pit maybe sounds a bit too hopeless… lol
just think of it as climbing a steep hill. a muddy hill. but there is a nice tree on top :P

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: tell me something.
~AGAPE~ offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Thanks Pyro I will try to keep that tree on my radar

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Agape Love
Baron Scary offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (33 minutes after post)

here, get your mind off crap. wanna see my demo reel? it’s coooool :P
http://help.com/post/491869-looking-f…

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: tell me something.
~AGAPE~ offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (43 minutes after post)

I likie :)

Pyro the Cat wrote:
here, get your mind off crap. wanna see my demo reel? it’s coooool :P
http://help.com/post/491869-looking-f…

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Agape Love
Baron Scary offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (45 minutes after post)

thanks :) so what is on your mind? anything in particular or are you just in the dumps?

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: tell me something.
HetaliaAlchemist offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (47 minutes after post)

“Happiness is one of the most important treasures. It is within your soul. All you have to do, is dig it out and enjoy it.” Not sure who said that quote but I thought ti was good for this post…

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: ok
~AGAPE~ offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Just down, worried about getting a job after all I have been through, kind scared of being out there..but I will just do it scared if and when I do it..

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Agape Love
~AGAPE~ offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (49 minutes after post)

HetaliaAlchemist wrote:
“Happiness is one of the most important treasures. It is within your soul. All you have to do, is dig it out and enjoy it.” Not sure who said that quote but I thought ti was good for this post…

thanks ;)you are right on with that message…

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Agape Love

~AGAPE~ edited this post 1 year, 11 months ago. Read the previous text »

Seriously down.
Need some soulshine from someone kind, difficult time, just can’t express myself here, I have had it…please send help I need a rope God love I hope..
take it or leave it…but please hear me I am so sad,
I am low
please help
L

Help me with: Agape Love
Z-Anonymous offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

AGAPE LION wrote:
Just down, worried about getting a job after all I have been through, kind scared of being out there..but I will just do it scared if and when I do it..

I’m sorry you are going through this. i too have been there and was praying earlier this week to be delivered from the fear one of my relatives was dishing out. I had a couselor who would tell me the only way out…is through. i started picturing fear like the 23rd psalm talks about valley of the shadow of death. it makes you think it is death…it feels like a valley with death…but it is only a shadow.

Best wishes to you…and thanks for being an example of bravery for the rest of us.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
CallingAllAngels offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (2 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Your avatar reminded me of this song by Mark Wills, Wish You Were Here. One of my favorites. You should listen to it. Has a sad story, but a love between two people that creates miracles. :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sAN5yF…

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
TylerJaden24 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (3 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Pyro the Cat wrote:
I’m just crawling out of a pit of despair that i’ve been in for a few weeks. i’m on my way back up at the moment, but i know i will end up in another pit in a few weeks. gotta enjoy the ups while they’re there.
I know that now sucks for you and i wish i could help, just remember that it is only right now that it sucks. things will get better. i started exercising again, thats what pulled me out of it recently… or maybe i was just feeling better enough to exercise again.

Hmm yeah, I have those ups and downs too. Was on my way up for about a month then all of a sudden today I’m falling again. I just hope it doesn’t take me to long to pick myself up again.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Baron Scary offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (3 hours, 30 minutes after post)

haha nice… you changed the post to Dune :P
yeah you always have to fight it. its too easy to just stay down, i know they say life is what you make it but sometimes you can’t make it anything :/
just keep trying to do the things that pick you up…

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: tell me something.
~AGAPE~ offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (21 hours, 32 minutes after post)

Z-Anonymous wrote:

AGAPE LION wrote:
Just down, worried about getting a job after all I have been through, kind scared of being out there..but I will just do it scared if and when I do it..

I’m sorry you are going through this. i too have been there and was praying earlier this week to be delivered from the fear one of my relatives was dishing out. I had a couselor who would tell me the only way out…is through. i started picturing fear like the 23rd psalm talks about valley of the shadow of death. it makes you think it is death…it feels like a valley with death…but it is only a shadow.

Best wishes to you…and thanks for being an example of bravery for the rest of us.

Thank you Sweet Z I love what you wrote to me, it brought tears to my eyes what good words I know that fear is only a shadow thought, so I guess that sunshine will dispel that heavy darkness into nothingness when I remind myself that shadows have no home and I do, IN HIM..thank you

CallingAllAngels wrote:
Your avatar reminded me of this song by Mark Wills, Wish You Were Here. One of my favorites. You should listen to it. Has a sad story, but a love between two people that creates miracles. :)

I needed to hear it thanks
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sAN5yF…

Thank you I will check out that song :)

Pyro the Cat wrote:
haha nice… you changed the post to Dune :P
yeah you always have to fight it. its too easy to just stay down, i know they say life is what you make it but sometimes you can’t make it anything :/
just keep trying to do the things that pick you up…

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Agape Love

Invite Others to Help

A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.