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Losing my best guy friend whom i, i know its cliche

but its true, may possibly have fallen head over heels for the first day we met even though i thought he was crazy…. His phone is broken. He defriended me on fb for no reason and wont accept my requests. He doesnt even reply to my messages… I miss him cuz his hugs msde me feel better. I remember so vividly how he showed me his scarred arms to stop my cutting and it made me want to kill whoever made him hurt like that and take the pain upon myself if it would make him feel better. I saw him june 15 on our last day of school and he pretty much tried to steal me so i couldnt go… Why is this haplening to me? And he has a gf whom, last i heard, he wants to marry some day so i highly doubt its because he likes me back… Whats really weird is his gf is ignoring me too, and she and i were like sisters… :( someone have any ideas?

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The Siren offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Stupid robot… This is an error!!!

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Help me with: Heart being torn in two…

The Siren changed the tags on this post: they were "cutting, Requests, First Day, Thought, head over heels, Remember, Scarred, pretty, reason, Accept" 1 year, 11 months ago.

Help me with: Heart being torn in two…
Kmax offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (33 minutes after post)

gf wasn’t happy with you getting so close to her bf so she told him to leave you alone. I think that is all it is, and clearly, with his choice, he chose her over you. Sorry. :(

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TylerJaden24 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 11 months ago (49 minutes after post)

Hmm, sounds a lot like my life. I don’t know what to say other than I hope you’re not too lonely without him.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (18 hours after post)

You’ve asked why you are being ignored?

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The Siren offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (18 hours, 10 minutes after post)

He wont reply.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (18 hours, 12 minutes after post)

Well, I’m afraid that’s rather sad of him. And her as well. When someone has problems with others it’s helpful of them to talk to that person about what the problem is.
It looks like you’ll need to make other friends since there’s nothing you can do here =/

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The Siren offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (22 hours, 55 minutes after post)

I wont give up on him. Hes my bigbrother…

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TylerJaden24 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (23 hours, 6 minutes after post)

The Siren wrote:
I wont give up on him. Hes my bigbrother…

O_o What? You’re in love with your brother??

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The Siren offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (23 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Hes a surrogate brother….

TylerJaden24 wrote:
The Siren wrote:
I wont give up on him. Hes my bigbrother…

O_o What? You’re in love with your brother??

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TylerJaden24 offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (23 hours, 19 minutes after post)

The Siren wrote:
Hes a surrogate brother….

Oh kay may bad.

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The Siren offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (23 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Its ok everyone says that. They dont understand that hayden and i cant be brother and sister for real. Trust me. If i tried dying my hair like he did id get killed…

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 days, 3 hours after post)

It’s possible that the way you make one brother, you can make more ^^

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The Siren offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 days, 15 hours after post)

Not like hayden. No one would show me their scars to keep me from cutting and hug me every day so i dont cry. No one would do all he did for me… And i dont even think its her fault now. I think they broke up…

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 week after post)

Actually anyone who cares about you as a good friend would do those kinds of things. What are the chances that you’d find the one person in the world like that?
Ultimately though, whether or not others will be like him or not like him, you could use more friends =) The way I think about it, every person who’s ever impacted my life has been unique, but they’ve also all been essential. And there will be many more like that in the future.

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