Love help: My girlfriend that I love so much cheated on me.Then she lied to me about she didn’t call him over. - Help.com

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My girlfriend that I love so much cheated on me.Then she lied to me about she didn’t call him over.

Now I can’t stop wanted to kill him or myself. But I can’t stop loving her.And she loves him.And when have a baby together.

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heyisthayle offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (19 minutes after post)

you need to get your own back get one of your friends that is a girl to go out with the boyshe cheated on then they’ll break up hopefully????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!???????????pls help me with one of mine now???????????????!!!!!!!!!?????????????!!!!!!!!!?????????!!!!!!????!!!!!? ??????????????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!??????????? ?????????????????????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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2 years, 9 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Killing someone else or yourself wont solve anything. All you can do is be a good father to the baby. (are you certain it is yours, I mean DNA tests) Trust me you will get over her, and find someone else who you can trust. There is noone on this earth that is worth killing for. Why would you want to spend your life with someone that has cheated on you?

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Sentimentaleducation offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (2 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Your baby will be around for a long time. I had a child 20 years ago and things did not work out between me and his mother but my son and I still have a great relationship. Some types of love lasts longer than others.

You don’t have to forgive cheating. If you need to move on from the relationship with her do it.

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Changedgirl offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
CA | 2 years, 9 months ago (6 hours, 59 minutes after post)

Wait, who is having a baby? You and your GF or her and her new BF?

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john.macalpin offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

I had exactly same thing happen over 20 years ago, I loved the girl (well what I thought was love) I eventually got legal custody of our baby boy and I have great relationship with him…
I never think about that woman now, she is a tragic case…
You need to love yourself first my friend… you will find real love … trust me ! you will ! learn to love yourself first!!!! keep relationship with your baby! it will all work out … you dont need to destroy your life over this !
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