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how long u have been having this relationship why is that u really wnat to leave him did u explain him the reason

i think he expected you to beg for him to come back. Don’t! If you think it will help, ask a few girlfriends to come over, make him feel like an ass in front of them, let him know he is not disturbing your life, then surely he would leave you alone!

Boys often have a harder time getting over broken relationships than girls do. Maybe it’s because they don’t know how to deal with emotions. Maybe it’s because their egos just can’t handle being broken up with. Either way, stick to your guns and just tell him in no uncertain terms that the relationship is over. Don’t worry about being hurting his feelings. That’s already been done. At this point you just need to look out for your own interests. Ultimately, the most unfair thing you can do is give him any hope that you might change your mind. Your relationship is over - it’s time he realize it and move on.

This sort of sounds like harassment. He broke up with you, and now he won’t let you move on? This guy needs a reality check, and I don’t know you, but I sense that you may be enabling him to have this control over you. Your post says that you don’t like him, but you can’t get over him. This probably means that for some reason, he has a hold on you despite him being a jerk. I think that you need to figure out what the hell it is that you really want. A good relationship with someone that cares for you, who is mature and who wants to treat you well. Or, a bad relationship with someone who treats you like crap. You have to lay down the law (if this is what you really want) and tell this guy that he needs to stop calling you. Then, block his phone number. Let go, and it will be easier for you to move on.

If it is truly over between you and him, then FIRMLY close the door to anything further with him. You’re going to have to be strong and let him know, in no uncertain terms, that you won’t tolerate his behavior. If you don’t, he’s going to keep bothering you.