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I have a kid by my bf.

my mom says that if i get preggy again by him, its as safe as a ring. I don’t want him to stay because of the kids, i want him to be there cause ‘he’ wants to. What do i do. it has been -plus years as boyfriend/girfriend, i want something more ….. in fact i want all of it.

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heehe offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (2 minutes after post)

I’m sorry but your mom is being really stupid.What kind of advice is that to give to a child?

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Hereford, F7, GB | 2 years, 9 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Well marsha69 its really up to you. They are his kids as well. I always say talk, that is the best way to solve most things.
why dont you tell me more…
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2 years, 9 months ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

yeah, you should really talk to him. Its the only way to know for sure what to do in this situation. Do remember though that your child will have to live with what you decide too. Hope it goes well.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (3 days, 6 hours after post)

I understand what you mean. Have you shared these thoughts with him?? If he loves you he will want everything too…..just think of the baby first, becuase that is the most important thing to worry about right now.

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