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My friend is stealing my ideas and getting all of the credit for my art, how do I tell her to stop?

I love to draw, its been my passion for years and one of my friends also likes to draw. Both of us have DeviantART accounts and post our works. I used to love her art, but something is bothering me. On DeviantART, there are things called bases, which are generally pictures of people that have no hair or clothes, their purpose is to help artists draw specific poses. So you use them and draw over them like a rough sketch. When you use them though, you are supposed to credit the base maker, the one who originally made the base. My friend uses bases, but doesn’t credit, and she denies that she uses them, but you can tell without a doubt that she does. This however, isn’t the thing that’s bothering me the most. What’s bothering me is that lately, she has been taking my art, something I’ve drawn, changing the position in the slightest bit and changing the color in the background and replacing my characters with hers. She is taking my ideas and using them on hers, taking all the credit, getting tons of views, and comments, and favorites, while I have none. Its really upsetting me, that all the hard work I do to create my art that doesn’t get recognized at all, and then she goes and makes a cheap replicate and gets all this fame and attention. She doesn’t even say that she got the idea from me, and I know that if I talk to her, she’ll deny it, but everyone else I talk to can also tell that she’s copying me without a doubt. And all of our friends, who are friends with both of us, admit that my art is better, so why does she get credit for what I do? Why does she get all the “Oh how cute! I love it!”s and I get nothing, when she’s taking all my hard work? And now she’s even started to copy the designs of my characters, she even starts to wear similar clothes to me and talk like me, and use phrases that I accidentally use alot. Drawing is all I have and she’s taking it away from me. I don’t care that she’s copying me in other ways, but I’m tired of her getting credit for my hard work. Its tearing me up, because I don’t want to hurt her feelings, but she’s to stubborn to listen to me. How can I get her to listen? Better yet, how do I get her to stop?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 10 months ago (4 minutes after post)

i had a friend EXACTLY like that, notice the HAD. one, she’s probably a lot louder than you and two, it’ll be hard to get her to stop if she denies shes doing anything. you could try having a friend who agrees with you there when you confront her so she cant deny it. but you should probably just stop being her friend and move on if she’s willing to cause you this much stress and push into the dark so she can shine.

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lemonberrilub offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

I do have a friend, actually multiple, who know that she’s doing this and we’ve been discussing it. We’ve been planning to talk to her, but we don’t know how. Thank you so much for replying though, I’m sure that this will help, thank you so much!

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Anonymous #
1 year, 10 months ago (9 minutes after post)

lemonberrilub wrote:
I do have a friend, actually multiple, who know that she’s doing this and we’ve been discussing it. We’ve been planning to talk to her, but we don’t know how. Thank you so much for replying though, I’m sure that this will help, thank you so much!

np, just make sure you dont procrastinate to the point where it never happens and you just go boom
good luck though, I hope everything works out for the best :)

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lemonberrilub offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Thank you, I need my friend to come back from vacation though until I can take action.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 10 months ago (58 minutes after post)

Slap a copywright notice on all your work, citing who completed the work, then after a few times… LAWSUIT!

I dunno prolly not that simple… Im not too much help here sorry! Hope you find a way that works tho!

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alice atrophy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

i use deviantART too. i have never had this problem (as far as i know) but i would just confront her and tell her that other ppl notice it too. she’s prolly getting all the attention tho b/c she’s prolly going around being all nice, friendly, and fake and advertising her work by saying “oh this is so cute! i love it! 3 u should check out my work(:” and then posting links to her gallery or work.
if she absolutely denies copying u and wants to b a stubborn liar and art thief and a terrible friend, then go on the deviations of the work she has copied, post a link to ur work, and say she copied ur work. r ur deviations posted before her copied deviations? do u mind posting links to ur and her deviations? i would love to c ur work and c what u r talkign about so i can better understand. art theivery is nothing u should put up with, especially from a friend

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alice atrophy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 11 minutes after post)

actually, it seems more like she’s using u as inspiration. but she’s crossing the line b/c she thinks she can get away with it. just confront her with her other friend when yall r hanging out and stuff. b like “so i noticed ur work looks a lot like mine. u’ve been using me as inspiration?” and ur friend should like chime and agree like “yea i noticed that, this charactrs clothes looked rlly similar to this one” like give an example of what she’s copied, but dont directly sayshe did.

and if she admits to using u for inspiration then one of u should tell her (suggest to her) that she should give u credit in the artist comments of her (copied) deviations, and post a link to ur gallery or deviations (she copied) in there too.

and then try to take it further, dig a lil deeper, from there and try to get into the matter of her copying ur poses. but dont b direct and say she’s copying ur poses. just somehow comment on how it looks a like. dont even hint that shes copying (tracing) ur poses.

like she could b drawing them from looking at ur work and not tracing the poses. i think its fine to copy someone’s pose, as long as u give credit to the person and u did NOT trace them. but if its this base stuff, i think its more likely she took the base and edited the arms and legs or whatever a bit b/c its so easy to do that with bases. idk if thats okay or not, but i defintely know its not okay if ur not giving the other person credit

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Fear offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours, 15 minutes after post)

She is not your friend.

Do not let her steal your ideas.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (12 months after post)

OMG UR JUST LIKE ME :0

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