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Is it rude to say good luck to a stranger going to the cemetery?

I have been working n a shop for a few weeks and an older woman came in buying something to leave at her mother in law’s grave who had passed a year ago. She said she hadn’t been able to go because she lives in Boston but she was originally from here. We chatted a bit. I was picking out decorations and we picked out colors and she talked about her color preferences and how she didn’t want pink since she wasn’t a girly girl. She said she had brown hair just like me. We were just chatting. So when she was leaving I was saying goodbye and for some reason I said “good luck” and I just froze being like “…….” and hoping she hadn’t heard it. But she said good luck to you too. I am 18 and haven’t dealt with death except my grandma. I feel horrible because it was such a dumb thing to say

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Goodfella offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (17 minutes after post)

It was from your heart and the Lady and myself would think it was nice of you to care , I need Good Luck every time I go see my parents grave , just to get through it , so no it wasn’t dumb , it showed your compassion and showed you care , being young and not having dealt with death , I think you handeled yourself just fine……….. my opinion .

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Rosabella offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Yes, I think you were sweet. :)

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Z-Anonymous offline Verified User (3 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (29 minutes after post)

since the lady returned your wish for luck, i think she knew your heart’s intention…

don’t sweat it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Each moment in life can be improved with good luck. It’s like saying, “I hope every experience in the present and every moment of the future brings the most wonderful blessings imaginable to you.”

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Rosabella offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (37 minutes after post)

yeah!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (50 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t say rude, just awkward lol.

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (5 hours, 39 minutes after post)

everyone needs a little bit of luck. :)

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