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Ugh I just dont know!
Let me start from the begining, I met this guy on an online dating website. At first I didnt really think I’d really like him, I mean he was sweet, funny, nice, and alittle cute but he was full of sh*t with some of the stuff he tells me. He says oh ur soo beautiful, ur my dream girl, ur perfect, blah bl,ah blah. and lets just say i know he says that to every girl he meets on this website. On his Facebook all these girls flirt with him, but he never seems to say anything back to them….on facebook….
Anyways the first time we talked he was on me about meeting asap. but i wanted to wait to get to know him a lil bit. I mean he wanted to meet the first day we started talking, so we went out on our first date like 5 days after we started talking, and it went ok i guess, but i got the feeling something wasnt right, or he didnt like me much basically because he didnt even know much about me even tho i told him before we met, but i figured he might of forgotten.
He is very attracted to me because we actually made out on the first date and i dont usually like to do that but he was just saying things i wanted to hear so i fell for it, even tho i knew he was prob lying, but i wanted soo badly to believe in what he was saying. then i got the feeling when our date ended, he prob wants just s3x from me, even though he said he was lookin for a relationship on the site, and the things he was saying to me sounded like he really liked me.
on our first date he asked if he wanted to go out again that sunday (which was 2 days later) so i said sure, but that day was fathers day and he said last min he was goin to his fathers house so im like ok no big deal it was fathers day after all but wouldnt he thought of that b4? we made another date but this time it was on a weekday which we live a good distance away from eachother and we both have to work early in the AM its prob best if we go out on a week end. so i was looking foward to it again and he canceled cuz he had to work late and then he made another date asking me if i wanted to go to his friend’s show and he canceled because he had a bad day at work and was workin late and almost got fired which was true cuz i creepin on his facebook and his friends and he said it, but he ended up goin to the show he later told me.
then yesterday came and we had our second date and we were with a bunch of his friends. he was near my house wit his friends and they were gonna c fireworks and he asked if i wanted to come so i said yeah, 1 of his friends had a girl with him 2 who was soooo pretty that all his other friends couldnt stop sayin how hot she was when she wasnt there which made me feel bad about myself and knowing the kind of guy the guy i am dating now, i know for a fact he thought she was “beautiful,perfect, etc” 2. he actu ally didnt pay much attention to her surprizingly and acted like he really liked me. we were kissin, huggin, holding hands, esp. towards the end of the night.
(oh i forgot to mention before our second date, he was sayin how badly he wanted to make out with me, and stuff like that, and thats another reason y i think he just wants to screw me)
he drove down with some friends to c the fireworks but his friends went with his other friends and he wanted to drive me home cuz he wanted to make out and stuff for a bit. so we ended up doin that for a while and when it was time to leave hes like “u gonna miss me?” im like you u? hes like “yes….unfortuneatly. ” then he said we should go out soon and i said ya i want to and he goes me too and im like well do u promise to actually go out soon and not have something come up like work (i didnt mean to say work becauee i knew that was a real excuse but i was tryin to make a point) and he goes well i dont know about that work is crazy. then i said yeah sorry i meant like other excuses blah blah blah.
i htought it ended well, besides the fact i think he just might want to use me. im not aure if im being paranoid or not. do u think he uses me? but anyways he said he was gonna call me today but he didnt. i felt bad for the guy he gets up at 5 and he didnt get home prob around 215ish last night so i know he was tired. plus he goes to bed really early usually.
i got alittle upset that i havent heard from him all day, he didnt even post anything up on fb all day until around 830. he said as his staus “what else can i say ur beautiful” and i thoguht that was really weird because he hasnt said a word to me all day and yesterday i asked him a question and he accidently texted it as his status the answer to my question from his phone.
so im like ok this better not be a text to someone by accident again and i noticed he was online (but sometimes his phone leaves him online but it usually goes idle and he wasnt idle) so i fb chat him and he didnt answer aand he always did before so i texted him i said hi and he answered so sleepy. so i said “ok ill let u go to sleep just was sayin hi” and he said goodnight. so i sai goodnight, but wtf? is he like ignoring me?
i felt like he just didnt want to talk to me i know he was very tired and it was kind of late for him but come on! that seemed rude. also on his “beautiful” status 1 of the girls he firts with said “aww lucky girl” and another one liked his status, but she likes everything he posts. so idk! do u think hes just not that into me? do u think he just wants to use me??
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