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Do you think he’s interested?

Okay, so. My university’s got a Facebook page so you can meet other incoming freshman. I saw this guy that I thought was attractive, and we had two really short conversations. I decided to bite the bullet and add him, and then I messaged him saying I wanted to get to know people who were going to our school. After like a week I said that I hoped we had at least one class together, and he agreed, saying it would be nice to have a class with someone he knew that was pretty cool. I’m more familiar with the area we’re going to school in, and I told him that we should go on adventures around and I could show him all the good places to eat, and he told me I’d be his life saver.
So after a few weeks I gave him my number and told him to text me and he did, and we’ve had a few good text conversations. He told me to be prepared for constant visits from him at my apartment, and we made a deal that he’d kill all the spiders for me and I’d cook for him in return. I pretty much told him he’d be my guinea pig for recipes. I made my facebook status that I wished I could play guitar, and within a minute he commented saying he’d teach me at school.
He also told me about his family, and I don’t know how personal that is to him, but it wasn’t a normal family story, if you get what I’m saying.
He also uses smiley faces when talking to me a lot and usually answers really fast.

I don’t know how he normally acts, but he tells me he’s shy normally. I’m interested, so I want to know what you all think.

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Sparrowhawk offline Verified User (5 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (6 minutes after post)

To me it sounds like he’s interested. Reckon you should keep at it! :)
Best of luck,
CF

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Do you think he’s interested?

Okay, so. My university’s got a Facebook page so you can meet other incoming freshman. I saw this guy that I thought was attractive, and we had two really short conversations. I decided to bite the bullet and add him, and then I messaged him saying I wanted to get to know people who were going to our school. After like a week I said that I hoped we had at least one class together, and he agreed, saying it would be nice to have a class with someone he knew that was pretty cool. I’m more familiar with the area we’re going to school in, and I told him that we should go on adventures around and I could show him all the good places to eat, and he told me I’d be his life saver.
So after a few weeks I gave him my number and told him to text me and he did, and we’ve had a few good text conversations. He told me to be prepared for constant visits from him at my apartment, and we made a deal that he’d kill all the spiders for me and I’d cook for him in return. I pretty much told him he’d be my guinea pig for recipes.
He also told me about his family, and I don’t know how personal that is to him, but it wasn’t a normal family story, if you get what I’m saying.
He also uses smiley faces when talking to me a lot and usually answers really fast.

I don’t know how he normally acts, but he tells me he’s shy normally. I’m interested, so I want to know what you all think.

windmills offline Verified User (6 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Ditto.

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mindhealer online Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (5 hours, 36 minutes after post)

If you both are just moved away from home for the first time, it can be really good to have a friend. The natural tendency might even be to go for girlfriend/boyfriend situations, but one underlying factor might just be loneliness from moving away from home.

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1 year, 10 months ago (12 hours, 4 minutes after post)

crystalvision wrote:
If you both are just moved away from home for the first time, it can be really good to have a friend. The natural tendency might even be to go for girlfriend/boyfriend situations, but one underlying factor might just be loneliness from moving away from home.

Well I don’t think it’s that. We’re not in school yet.

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1 year, 10 months ago (1 day, 13 hours after post)

Anyone else?

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