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im really confused about this guy who say that he has

a gf but then i told him that i liked him and he said he likes me toobut sorta has a gf and then tells me that if it doesnt turn out then he wants o go out with me but like how long should i wait for him or should i eveb wait for him im just really confused idk wat to do….please help me
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AngelFromNowhere offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Auckland, 00, NZ | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 minutes after post)

It sounds like he is using you as a back up girl, if his relationship does not work then he will have you for a girl, i say move on, find someone whoi likes you first. Yoiu are worth more.

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1 year, 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

yeah but his best friend told me he wont be with her long cause he comes on really strong and he is tellin me that i should wait for him i just dotn know wat to do

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AngelFromNowhere offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Auckland, 00, NZ | 1 year, 6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

If he really liked you he would not stay with her at all, he would have left her for you already. The fact he is waiting for there relationship to have problems proves that he is not putting you ahead of her, already she is ahead of you in his mind.

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andlawson6 offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (16 minutes after post)

yeah i see wat ur sayin…..i just dk

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1 year, 6 months ago (16 minutes after post)

yeah i c wat u guys are sayin but i really like him so i just dont know

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AngelFromNowhere offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Auckland, 00, NZ | 1 year, 6 months ago (19 minutes after post)

like or love, love might be worth waiting for, but like - well you will like manmy people in your lifetime

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Anonymous #
1 year, 6 months ago (21 minutes after post)

well idk if i love him cause im only 15 but i feel like i mite but idk its like i feel like i should give him aa few days maybe a week then not for him anymore but hes like a nice guy

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AngelFromNowhere offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
Auckland, 00, NZ | 1 year, 6 months ago (24 minutes after post)

how long have you knowen him, maybe if you have been friends a while, liked him for a while, them you will get together sometime, the time might just not be right now? I do not know, i still feel thaty if he really liked you he would find a way to be with you, but ha, its been a while since I have been a teenager, and I guess teen age boys do not alwqays know what they want, and maybe he is just as confused as you are.

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italysoneandonl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (3 hours, 31 minutes after post)

wats your name

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Anonymous #
1 year, 6 months ago (11 hours, 35 minutes after post)

yeah i havnt knwn him that long we kinda just met my cousins boyfriend was tryin to hook me up with me and stuff….but yeah

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