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how young is to young for a 27yo man in the uk?

just wondering what people think age’ doesnt bother me to much obviously id never go with someone under 16 caz 1 its sick n 2 its illegal but just wondered what age people think i should be looking for?

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Princess K offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 minutes after post)

25-29 years?

but there again ash..age doesn’t tbh…just the feeling between the two of u counts the most:)

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1 year, 10 months ago (11 minutes after post)

17 down is a no no! But lets just say that a 18-21 year old girl may not be on the same page you are at life. Opposite to that, a 26-28 girl might allready be ahead of you depending on how mature you are (since you have to ask what group of age you should be dating, I’m making the wild assumption that you probably haven’t solved some stuff from being younger)

So by this logic probably the “safe” area is 22-25′ish? Just so you know, I don’t think this is 100% true in every case. 28 year old girl can be childish and inmature, and a 18 year old can allready have figured out a lot of important things in life. So, to conclude it:
22-25 might be the safe area, while I would still recomend meeting people from 18-28 with precaution. Still 17 down is a no no!

At the end, age is not the only thing to consider! Compatibility and actual love might be even bigger variables!

Princess K offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Ash..listen to aanon..s/he knows what they are talking about lol. You go girl/guy (lol) I persoanlly if in his situation wouldn’t try for anyone younger than 23.

Anonymous wrote:
But lets just say that a 18-21 year old girl may not be on the same page you are at life.

lol wanted to say this but couldn’t find the words lol..anon u took the words rite from my mouth lol.. GREAT ANSWER:)

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barbyman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (22 minutes after post)

50 ..You might learn something…

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ashneedshelp offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 23 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (35 minutes after post)

thanks guys just wondering caz iv gone older and younger and both dont seem to work lol but yea younger is a pain my ex was on a diff page i.e wanting to go clubing etc every weekend where i wanted to spend the cash sorting out the flat and saving for a house etc :/

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Princess K offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (37 minutes after post)

ashneedshelp wrote:
thanks guys just wondering caz iv gone older and younger and both dont seem to work lol but yea younger is a pain my ex was on a diff page i.e wanting to go clubing etc every weekend where i wanted to spend the cash sorting out the flat and saving for a house etc :/

Hmm yeah i know whaat you mean:0

although doing ur place up and clubbing are two different things..

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1 year, 10 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

JUST CHILL MAN! It’s more about compatibility than age. Like someone? get to know em’… like REALLY know em’. 5 months, 2 years, whatever time you need just to hang out and realize what’s going on. Is she not for? Be direct and polite, and leave. We are not guilty for the feelings we cause on others, but we are guilty if we consent those feelings. Is she CRAZY!? Get another person involved. First, obviously, figure out how crazy she really is by asking friends, family, and/or professionals. Then, if she really is the one who would shop her pets head off out of anger, uhm… get someone involve. Not to get rid of her, but to help her! A close friend of yours or hers or both that could help her realize she needs to calm down.

I know I’m getting way ahead of everything here, but it never hurts to know a little! Just saying!

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Anonymous #
1 year, 10 months ago (3 days, 14 hours after post)

i dated a 27y/o when i was 19 he was kinda against it at first and worried about the age difference but i was young and in love, it was so wrong, he treated me more tlike his child. im 23 now and i still probs wouldnt date a 27year old, i think for me, 25 max

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kates428 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 month after post)

Someone closer to your age. Regardless if you have the philosophy of age only being a number, you have to take into account that someone who is a legal teen or even in their early twenties has A LOT of maturing and life to experience. Leave them alone- allow them to grow unmolested by the experience of a relationship which involves such a distance in maturity and life experiences. Even if you were to “love” a person younger than yourself, the most loving act you could bestow upon them would be to leave them alone and let them experience life on their own. Search for someone more closer to your own age.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 9 months ago (1 month after post)

Okay, so what about a 33 year old man with a 19 year old girl…guyss..what do you think???

(this is just a question, lol)

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Anonymous #
1 year, 9 months ago (1 month after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Okay, so what about a 33 year old man with a 19 year old girl…guyss..what do you think???

(this is just a question, lol)

I think it’s pretty cool as long as she can understand you! =)

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Anonymous #
1 year, 9 months ago (1 month after post)

Woahh..it’s alrite?? great! lol

(but we are just friends..but get on sooooo well lol)

P.S..I am a girl lol

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Anonymous #
1 year, 8 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Woahh..it’s alrite?? great! lol

(but we are just friends..but get on sooooo well lol)

P.S..I am a girl lol

Cool! just understand him and don’t be endocentric or spoiled ;)

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1 year, 8 months ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Woahh..it’s alrite?? great! lol

(but we are just friends..but get on sooooo well lol)

P.S..I am a girl lol

Cool! just understand him and don’t be endocentric or spoiled ;)

lol.i’ll try;)

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Kitty Kat offline Verified User (4 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 months after post)

Feelings are what counts, but if we’re talking legal and opinion-wise, since you are 27, I’d say 21-30

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 3 weeks ago (1 year, 5 months after post)

umm in the US 18 is the legal age limit. I disagree with u dating a 17 year old and younger….not to sure what people look “down on” in the UK

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