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How to rebuild trust?

This guy and I have been together for 4 months. Things have been going extremely well. Like every relationship we have issues but nothing that we don’t work through.

Before we started dating, we were talking and getting to know each other and starting to fall for each other. In this time I had a one night stand that (like all one night stands) I regret. I was honest with him about it and he brushed it off.

Recently we have decided that we want a very open, honest, communication-filled relationship so he brought up the fact that I was with someone right before we started dating. He says that it really bothered him and thats where some trust issues arise.

How do we work on this so it doesn’t become a demon from the past that will forever haunt our relationship?

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johnnmr offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Did you have any doubt if you two would be togather or if it would work out between you two around the time of the one night stand?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Trust,is easy to broke..but hard to fix..it need lot of time to be rebuild again..

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7 months ago (1 year, 3 months after post)

talk about it. It happened before you guys started dating, so it’s not like you were cheating. At least you told him.

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