Situation help: I had a major fight with my bf last night. - Help.com

Give each other some space, I have been married for 25 years and it works we sit in separate rooms a lot of the time, being close does not have to mean being close.

The problem I think is that I have a hard time forgiving him for some things that he has done and I always bring that back. I lost faith in this relationship. I don’t see a future with him.

Ok get out, but remember that you may be half the problem, and when you go that half of the problem goes with you.

I dont know what he has done, but sometimes people think they need to condition or change there partner for the better. If they dont change in the way they are supposed to then things dont work.

Alternatively you just want out and you are using these thins he has done wrong as a reason.

I am sure you will make a wise choice, either to leave or to make the changes necessary for you to coexist, happily

I don’t think I am using those things as an excuse. Even one of my friends mentioned that he needs a lot of help while doing things like selecting coffee from a menu. She said she’d be exhausted. It’s almost like having a child. I was super in love with him despite the fact that he was not divorced yet and lied to me. We broke up many times. I got pregnant and decided not to have the baby. So, we went through a lot together. I am very pretty and intelligent, I am sure I will not have a problem finding someone else, but I loved him. There were always things about him that I didn’t think I would find in someone else. But the problems are serious and it’s becoming more difficult to ignore them.

Ok

Coffee choice is difficult :-)

I think you have made your mind up, so are you ready to do something about it, you split before, who instigated that and why did you get back?

I initiated. We got back together because he comes back telling me that we can work things out.