girl help: Is it ok to call a girl every night? - Help.com

cupcake7 wrote:
You are okay.. maybe a short call, not to long…

It’s nice to see how kindda excited you have been about this girl and her giving you her number.

:)

Here is an older posts..

http://help.com/post/497688-this-girl…

Pianosaurus Rex wrote:
Why not ask her? Every girl is different after all. One may tell you to cut it out, while another will want you to call. Just ask her if you’re calling too much, and if she says that you’re not, let her know that she can tell you if you are, if in the future she finds it to be a little excessive that is.

Should I do that tonight?

Baron Scary wrote:
it’s okay to call if she wants you to, but you have to think about how much of her time is being eaten by you. maybe she puts off things she needs to do in order to spend more time with you. she’s probably just as excited as you are, but be considerate of her time. she probably has things she needs to do and you probably do too. its just a thing to keep in mind, you don’t want to take over each other’s lives.

Yea, you’re right, that’s why I usually call her at night time, but she’ll be so tiring:)

Anonymous wrote:
It depends on your age. If you are still in high school but calling her late at night, I think her parents may not deem you too favorably. But if you are an adult and she is too, and this is a good time for both of you to talk and she gives indications that she likes talking to you (she doesn`t sound tired, yawn, mention she has to get up in the morning, etc) then it might be okay. However, if your instincts are saying “give it a couple of days break” then I would go with my gut feeling because your instincts are often right.

I am out of school(19) and she’s turning 17. But please don’t bring anything up about child molesting stuff or anything underage. If you live in Alaska then you’d know what I’m talking about:)

cupcake7 wrote:
… yes, keep the parents on your side. Don’t call too late ot too often

YUP

empie wrote:
well maybe not call so late. try txting. ask if she wants u to call after txting a bit. either that or jus ask her straight out

I don’t have a cell:(

Anonymous wrote:

FireFlies wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
It depends on your age. If you are still in high school but calling her late at night, I think her parents may not deem you too favorably. But if you are an adult and she is too, and this is a good time for both of you to talk and she gives indications that she likes talking to you (she doesn`t sound tired, yawn, mention she has to get up in the morning, etc) then it might be okay. However, if your instincts are saying “give it a couple of days break” then I would go with my gut feeling because your instincts are often right.

I am out of school(19) and she’s turning 17. But please don’t bring anything up about child molesting stuff or anything underage. If you live in Alaska then you’d know what I’m talking about:)

Child molestation over a telephone call? That was the last thing on my mind, but since she`s 16 going on 17, I`m assuming she is still school age and under her parents` roof so you might want to consider not calling so late. I doubt I would be happy with someone calling my daughter late at night. Since it is the summer break, why can`t you call her during the day or early evening?

We’re not only talking on the phone, but we’re also hanging out. I tend to keep things slow unlike some rest. But I understand what you’re telling me, but that’s usually the time when everyone’s quite for both of our families. And for me and her, we just feel more comfortable talking to eachother at night. I don’t know the word for it but it just feels better at night.

ungratefulldue wrote:
If you already been calling and she’s been answering.. doing that will only send out that your not interested

You’re saying that I’m not interested?

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FireFlies wrote:
[quote Anonymous][quote FireFlies][quote Anonymous]We’re not only talking on the phone, but we’re also hanging out. I tend to keep things slow unlike some rest. But I understand what you’re telling me, but that’s usually the time when everyone’s quite for both of our families. And for me and her, we just feel more comfortable talking to eachother at night. I don’t know the word for it but it just feels better at night.

Have you met her parents? How do they feel about you?

I get that talking late at night is most comfortable because it`s when you have the most privacy without being interrupted. It`s a cozy, intimate time. It`s a time when people wind down and relax from all the distractions and work of the day. So as a woman, I get this, but as a parent of a daughter I think I would not like a boy calling my daughter late at night partly because it is such an intimate time and partly because I would be concerned about my daughter being kept up late into the night. Of course, every family is different and every parent is different, but getting on the parents` good side only helps you. So you might want to ask your girlfriend if her parents mind her talking this late at night.

Yea see that’s the thing, her dad is married to my far far away aunt. Which in my culture, that makes him my uncle. So her parents knows my family(me included). That’s how I know that they don’t mind her talking late at night. Because it is summer she is allow to stay up. So that’s the story about her parents and her and me talking late at night. And yup, I took many advice and called her in the day now:)