friends help: Hey guys, I have two roommates that are spouses and they are both alcoholics. - Help.com

Hey guys, I have two roommates that are spouses and they are both alcoholics.

The husband is Adam the wife is Heather. Adam gets so drunk he starts arguing with my friends who aren’t trying to argue with him. Two nights ago he got in a fight with my neighbor. My neighbor beat his *** and then he called the police after he choked his wife. Last night he was going up to a few of my friends and trying to start fights with them. All of my friends were saying hit me then come on. He wouldn’t then he went outside, next thing I know there were police at my apartment again he had told them that he was hit in the face and that they were threatening him with guns. The police searched the place and found no sign of any guns. they asked him what happened to his face and he told them that he started a fight the night before(is he stupid?). Then the police told me and my friend that him and i were prime suspects for something but wouldn’t tell us. He’s just very aggressive and drinks so much that he doesnt remember anything. He payed me 40 dollars for rent and he was supposed to give me 200. Im sick of this guy. I want him out. I want to know what i can do to get him out and possibly place legal actions. But he is not on the lease so i cant let the apartments know he has been living here. I would get evicted. But help would be greatly appreciated. Please reply soon, thanks!

This open post was written 1 year, 9 months ago | V/U/S: 908, 4, 2 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post


Reciprocity (0) Reciprocation Failure -- The poster has NOT helped anyone else yet!

Since writing this post Tyler. may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days. Tyler. is a verified member, has been around for 5 years, 3 months and has 16 posts and 407 replies to their name.

Post Tags (10)

what happened, Last Night, apartment, Remember, husband, Heather, friends, living, Police, stupid (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)

Replies (4)

Where were you?

Click and drag to move the map around. FAQ: How we place people on this map »
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happen
Mouse over the map for 2 seconds to see an expanded, interactive view

corriga offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

get a restraining order against him. Say he’s dangerous and you feel your life is in danger. Get a restraining order and he has to leave immediately.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Do your bones ever hurt after you cry?
Pepper Jelly offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Does he know he’s not on the lease??

If he doesn’t know, or even if he does and he’s too drunk to have a clear thought, you could fool him by posting a “Notice to Quit” on his door.

You can get many of them online or you could go to the court house and ask for one (you’d have to pay for the copies, but you won’t have to pay to have it served if you serve it yourself~by taping it on his door). You won’t have to pay to file it (to have the case go before a judge) until/unless you are ready to do so (ie: not “up front.”)

After you post the Notice to Quit, they have three days to leave

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Pepper Jelly offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

But remember: you are not really going to file the paperwork, since the whole situation is not on the up and up, so you will have to play it off with him that you DID actually let the apartment managers know and that you DID go to court and start a filing against him….

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Tyler. offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Birmingham, AL, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (7 minutes after post)

He knows hes not on the lease. He’s actually trespassing just being in my complex because he was evicted from an place in my complex. And the notice thing wouldn’t work I dont think

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators

Invite Others to Help

A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.