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I dont know if anyone is even online right now,but im very scared.

My friend called not to long a go.she told my she was all most raped.she was crying told my she wanted me there with her.i cant be with her i live to fare a way.she keped saying she wanted me to be with her.this has never hapiend to me befor.how do i deel with this?i dont know how to fell right now.i need help i need it very fast.she told me she wants to die.i fell crapy cus she wanted me there now i want to die.ive had no sleep.im mad at me i was not there when she needed me.can anyone help please!!!!she needs my help!!!

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deathbybullets offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 minute after post)

Speak with her if you can, even if you arent’ there. Talk to her and let her know things are ok.

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kokalad offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

hey this really sounds serious, convince her everything is okay. keep talking and try making her feel good.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Your friend needs help, I agree with deathbybullet, talk to her over the phone and see if someone close by can sit with her. There are free phone counselling services and also she should report this to the police.

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Rainbow Girl offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Its like she cant hear me. she keped on saying i need to go.i would not let her go.she wanted to know if i was ok and still cutting myself i told her i was fine.all she cud say is how sorry she was.she told me everything.i know i need to b there for her but ive tyred to kill myself twice and to hear this macks me fell crapy.she needs me!she told me she saw the d.r.i was glad to hear that but i feel i should have been there. i cant be thats what kills me!!!!!!

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Rainbow Girl offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (27 minutes after post)

I dont know how to deel with this.im pritty mad at me.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (30 minutes after post)

The fact that your friend has seen a doctor is a positive. Someone once told me that before you try and fix someone, you need to make sure you are not broken yourself. Its a bit new age but I think you need to take a step back from your friend just for 10 mins and think about you. My work talks about circles of influence, ie what can you actually influence and what can’t you influence. You can’t influence the fact that your friend has gone through this, but you can influence your reaction and the help you can give her. Stay strong

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Rainbow Girl offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

Im on no sleep i fell way to bad,it dus not fell real.how cud this happin?

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kokalad offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

how old are you if you are old enough and live in usa let doctor phil help you.

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Fionna offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (5 hours, 38 minutes after post)

Is she in Reno, Crista? Is there no way you could go there?

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Stink Bug offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (11 hours, 16 minutes after post)

The nicest thing is when you have a friend there for you when time is tuff. Be there for her C it will mean the world to her. I know to me it does.

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Louve offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (15 hours, 46 minutes after post)

if she is far away do your best to be with her, she really needs it right now. if you cant get to her, talk to her as much as posssible. it will mean the world to her that you are there. if you are thinking sucidal thoughts just think of how upset your friend will be when she finds out you did that to yourself, although your pain will end hers will get even worse. do your best to be with her as much as you can.

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Rainbow Girl offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (18 hours, 47 minutes after post)

I just want this weekend to end!!well i called my friend. then she told me shes drunk shell have to call me latter shes (25). just so u all know. she wanted to kill her self i told her no!shs told me you know how i feel i sead yes but dont kill youer self.then she told me well youve tryed to kill youer self i was like yes but look its not worth it.well she so drunk she will call me tomarow.if she dus not i will call her.then i call my other frined how has always helped me out i just wanted to see how he was.he told me hes dun some thinking he wants to kill himself im fraeking out. here r to frinds how i love so much they want to die and i cant b with ether of them.evry thing i sead to him he sead nothing back there was noting to him.then he hangs up on me…so i call & call then he i hear helow.im like r u ok? no i have to go to the hospital i say for what? he punck is hand thought a wall and brock his hand.now hes on medz for the pain & he will call me tomarow…i had to call a hot line for my sake for me to stay alittl sane.and i have a cold form all this..i cant not take one moer thing 2 frinds who want to die and i cant get to them..this is way pasted bad times….i have had about 3 houres of sleep…so how is everone eles???

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Fionna offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (19 hours, 45 minutes after post)

If she’s suicidal, I’d seriously recommend calling the police, and giving them her contact information. You don’t want to mess around with that kind of thing.

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Rainbow Girl offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (19 hours, 52 minutes after post)

Yeah but she will not teel me where she is.all she sead is shes with friends…

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