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when life is not fun anymore

and hasn’t been for a while

why can’t we end it? why is it so wrong? why is it so compulsory to go on living, when the resources i utilize every day could go to someone that wants life?

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thecookiemonster9 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Because it’s wrong to take any human life.

Not even your own.

And because life works in cycles…

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 117 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Its not morally wrong in my opinion. However I think it is simply an error, a mistake, a decision made on incorrect data. You believe that life has become uninteresting whereas I doubt this is the case. You are instead looking in the wrong places.

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1 year, 10 months ago (18 minutes after post)

dying is easy and you only have one opportunity to live. If you don’t like your life than make some changes and find something that you enjoy.

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Mariam* offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Fun? Who said life is supposed to be fun?

Life is a test. You can ace it, flunk it, or something in between, but if you quit you fail.

Try a change in perspective.

Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 117 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Mariam_the_Lioness wrote:
Fun? Who said life is supposed to be fun?

Life is a test. You can ace it, flunk it, or something in between, but if you quit you fail.

Try a change in perspective.

I like this a lot.

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Princess K offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (40 minutes after post)

Sure, it can be fun:)

If you want something..I believe that you have to go out there and get it.!!..meaning, if you want LIFE to be FUN.. then make it fun!

i know lol easy said than done but it’s life’s simplest pleasures and biggest joys that make like fun & intresting again:)

REmind yourself of what you possess in life! All thse good things, good moments, good relations with people, the bestest ever experiences etc:)

All the best dude:) Life will only be fun, if you want it that way:)

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Princess K offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (41 minutes after post)

Oh and errrr… Passing away is the easy way out..challenge yourself and stick around and stay:)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (2 hours, 59 minutes after post)

Mariam_the_Lioness wrote:
Fun? Who said life is supposed to be fun?

Life is a test. You can ace it, flunk it, or something in between, but if you quit you fail.

Try a change in perspective.

Test? Who said life is supposed to be a test?

What for? If I quit I fail. And if i live through the troubles (and still die at the end) I’ll ace it? Doesn’t really seem like much to me.
Lol. Sorry it’s too idealistic for me and doesn’t make sense. And the only reason people “live through tough times” is for the hope of better days and life later. When that itself is missing it’s a huge problem.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours after post)

Anonymous wrote:
dying is easy and you only have one opportunity to live. If you don’t like your life than make some changes and find something that you enjoy.

That is true,one opportunity. This makes me rethink a little.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (3 hours after post)

thecookiemonster9 wrote:
Because it’s wrong to take any human life.

Not even your own.

And because life works in cycles…

What cycles?

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 10 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (4 hours, 53 minutes after post)

so you’re saying you’ve lost hope for “better times”?

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Mariam* offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 10 months ago (10 hours, 17 minutes after post)

screa wrote:
Test? Who said life is supposed to be a test?

What for? If I quit I fail. And if i live through the troubles (and still die at the end) I’ll ace it? Doesn’t really seem like much to me.
Lol. Sorry it’s too idealistic for me and doesn’t make sense. And the only reason people “live through tough times” is for the hope of better days and life later. When that itself is missing it’s a huge problem.

My religion says that life is a test, and from what I’ve seen, that would make sense. Religious answers are discouraged here on help.com unless specifically requested, so I’ll not go into what the test is for, but no, you don’t necessarily ace it by simply living through all the troubles. You ace it by doing all that you can to make your portion of the world a better place for you having been a part of it. THAT is the point of life - to make a difference. In general, but not always, those who have suffered are at a stronger position to make a positive difference than those who have never suffered.

And things always get better in time. That’s been my experience anyway. There are hard times, but they don’t last forever. I hope your times get better very soon.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

I feel the same way, tired of having to listen to jerks at work who make life miserable, tired of the pain that comes with an incurable disease (chronic pain gets old after 10 years knowing that you have another 30 years to go before normal expiration)tired of struggling in the middle class while rich keep making it very difficult for the disappearing middle class to even exsist.

Going to be a hard weekend to get through.

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