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If you’re friends with all the pretty girls, there’s a fair chance you’re “one” of the pretty girls.

But that’s niether here nor there. Have you considered talking about this spiral with someone that may actually be able to help you. It’s never to late or in your case too early to decide you want a different sort of life. You can choose to seek out help so you don’t have to be constantly plagued by these feelings.

First, boost your self-esteem!

“How to increase your self-esteem”:
http://www.mind.org.uk/help/diagnoses…

“Six Behaviors that Increase Self-Esteem”:
http://www.changeforgood.com/articles…

“Boost your self-image with these 5 steps”:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/self…

“Helping Someone with Low Self Esteem”:
http://www.mynichearticle.com/self-es…
 
Next, change your attitude!

Have you ever heard about “Positive Thinking”?
It’s an attitude which can change your life to a more satisfied side.

“Start The Day With Positive Thinking”:
http://allthingsmamma.com/2010/01/sta…

Some other exercises in “Positive Thinking”:
· http://www.squidoo.com/brightside
· http://www.wethechange.com/7-effectiv…

listen, chances are youd be better looking if you put some weight ON! stop starving yourself to look good immediatly! there is nothing worse looking than an overly skinny woman. most people are more interested in you personality! why dont you try askin that guy you like to go out with you, not on a date, and start spending more time with him. u never know but maybe, maybe he’ll like you more just for being you!

Sending you a Giant Cyber Hug.
Feeling down on myself today

I’m sure your beautiful :) I’m way too skinny and I hate it! I wish I could gain weight!!

If you are anorexic, you could develop serious medical conditions because you are depriving your body from energy (calories) and the nutrients found in food. Talk with a trusted adult (your parents, doctor, school teacher, etc.) about your image problems.

Set up a healthy eating and exercising plan. A healthy, happy average or overweight woman is much more attractive than a sickly, depressed underweight girl. Treat your body well with food, activity, and compliments! In no time you not only will feel more beautiful, other people will see just how beautiful you really are! :)

A trick that helped me with my image problems was: every time you look in a mirror say “I am beautiful. I love my (body part) because (reason).” [ex: “I am beautiful. I love my green eyes, because they are warm and friendly and the same color as freshly mowed grass.”] Every single time you look at a mirror complement yourself and a different part of your body. :)

Once I started feeling more beautiful, I became more confident. I started talking to people more and so I was noticed more. I no longer felt like the “ugly duckling” in my group of friends. Instead, I felt just as confident and beautiful as they were.

You aren’t ugly and you definitely don’t need to starve yourself to be beautiful. Being beautiful is about FEELING beautiful! Which is why models, movie stars, etc. all come in different shapes and sizes.