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my husband is a transgender bisexual and is also a drug addict and alcoholic.
what the hell - why am I with him again? I am also bisexual and the whole transgender thing really doesn’t bother me. the drug addict thing however is beyond my capability of understanding. I am done with it! Done I tell you..Done. He left yesterday around 10 pm telling me he was going for a beer and a game of pool and I haven’t seen him since… in the last few hours I’ve checked the local hospitals and the local jail and he’s not in either place. So I can only guess that he is on a bender…. He’s left me with his dog so I can’t up and leave - I have to take care of the pooch…but I will be packing my bags first thing in the morning - he will hopefully show up tomorrow we will have it out - or not - I’m beyond talking right now - I just can’t anymore…I get paid the next day from unemployment - so I will be paying my rent and leaving town - actually crossing the border to be with friends in Canada. He can’t follow me because he’s a felon (from a long time ago - but he never straitened out his paperwork) and I will be taking some time to think. What I need is advice - all the advice you can give about what to do - when to come back (I will have to pack of course). The problem is…he is my best friend and we just moved to a new city - and he is now 3000 miles from his family and we just signed a one year lease on an apartment…It’s always the details that’ll kick you. Any advice would be appreciated.
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