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Why is it that whenever I make a new friend they’ve always got some dark secret or problem they end up telling me?

(I’m not saying it’s bad or anything it’s just it happens a lot is there something about me?)

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leximilleroxo offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Maybe you seem trustworthy and attract people who need a real friend.

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leximilleroxo offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Plus, most people have some kind of problem or dark secret. We ALL have some kind of struggle we’re facing.

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WritetheHeroine offline Verified User (4 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (5 minutes after post)

That’s what I was going to say. They might see you as someone they feel comfortable opening up to.

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leximilleroxo offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (9 minutes after post)

WritetheHeroine wrote:
That’s what I was going to say. They might see you as someone they feel comfortable opening up to.

I was reading your mind. ha!

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Crumpet♡Strumpet offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I was going to say the EXACT thing. Thankyou, you saved my fingers! ;) why is help.com so compulsive?!?!!

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AriieboiiLove offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (12 minutes after post)

I see I suppose that makes sense I just see where they get these impressions from in such a short amount of time. I mean I’m not going to telling everyone anything they’ve told me and I’ll try and help the best I can.

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Crumpet♡Strumpet offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (14 minutes after post)

AriieboiiLove wrote:
I see I suppose that makes sense I just see where they get these impressions from in such a short amount of time. I mean I’m not going to telling everyone anything they’ve told me and I’ll try and help the best I can.

You are probably a person that comes across as non judgmental, and a good confidant. It doesn’t take long to suss someone out I don’t think, I’d take it as a complement. You obviously have a great nature

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leximilleroxo offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (17 minutes after post)

PixieSticks wrote:
I was going to say the EXACT thing. Thankyou, you saved my fingers! ;) why is help.com so compulsive?!?!!

Because there are a lot of cool and caring people like you Pix! (:

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leximilleroxo offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (22 minutes after post)

AriieboiiLove wrote:
I see I suppose that makes sense I just see where they get these impressions from in such a short amount of time. I mean I’m not going to telling everyone anything they’ve told me and I’ll try and help the best I can.

You also might be a strong person and people might want to learn how to obtain that kind of strength.

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AriieboiiLove offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (41 minutes after post)

O okay I see where you’re coming from now Thank you ^_^

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amberlyons10 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 months, 3 weeks after post)

Because they trust n respect u :) xx

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