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I was just starting to move on.

I was getting over you, one small step at a time. My mind had been kept busy with college… I wasn’t thinking of you nearly as much anymore. Then you had to out of the blue text me saying that it’s best we move on. I was working on it! Why do you have to make this so god **** hard for me? Maybe for you I’m just another experience down the road, but you were more than that to me. So stop trying to teach my lessons and coming in and out of my life. You’re out now *******, thanks for reminding me.

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (16 hours, 8 minutes after post)

you should stop being a victim and TELL him to stay out of your life. it is simple if you choose to make it that way.

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jo- offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 day, 19 hours after post)

Tell this person to never contact you again and remove every trace of this person from your life. The memories will be enough to last you forever, that I am sure.

This hinderance can be overcome - and it will. Moving on is good. It’s vital. It contains strength and change. And life is ultimately about change. It’s inevitable and only you can accept it when it comes. Would you rather take it in your stride and do it in a dignified manner, or crumble. Lose yourself because someone decided that they didn’t want you anymore and they carried on with their life - unwaveringly fine and unhinged.
This is you. Your life at this very moment. Do not let it pass you by.

Grieve. Let it out. Cry. Be unhappy.. But there will become a point where you will briefly smile. You will not being thinking of that person and you will most definitely feel bliss again.

This is fleeting. Your future is waiting. And there are people who are so compassionate, the fools name will no longer be lingering on your lips and in your mind; but the next caring persons. Give life a chance and you will be surprised.

I wish you a swift healing process and an enriching future.

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Eddieee offline Verified User (4 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 56 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (2 days, 22 hours after post)

Ouch! :’(

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Wally! offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (3 days, 3 hours after post)

jo- wrote:
Tell this person to never contact you again and remove every trace of this person from your life. The memories will be enough to last you forever, that I am sure.

This hinderance can be overcome - and it will. Moving on is good. It’s vital. It contains strength and change. And life is ultimately about change. It’s inevitable and only you can accept it when it comes. Would you rather take it in your stride and do it in a dignified manner, or crumble. Lose yourself because someone decided that they didn’t want you anymore and they carried on with their life - unwaveringly fine and unhinged.
This is you. Your life at this very moment. Do not let it pass you by.

Grieve. Let it out. Cry. Be unhappy.. But there will become a point where you will briefly smile. You will not being thinking of that person and you will most definitely feel bliss again.

This is fleeting. Your future is waiting. And there are people who are so compassionate, the fools name will no longer be lingering on your lips and in your mind; but the next caring persons. Give life a chance and you will be surprised.

I wish you a swift healing process and an enriching future.

thank you, so much. I needed this.

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