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having relative in ur school

it all sucks … i don’t feel comfortable at school , i am entering 11th grade and now my sister is coming to my school … she looks so small and she isn’t that smart and now ii have to take responsibility of her and kinda be her guard whenever somebody speaks to her or fights with her and i just don’t know what to do when she will go into the bus some stupid guys keep swaering and making rubish things and since my father is a headmaster at school si guess she will hear lots of things by haters the same things happened to me … and being a son of a headmaster in ur school is not as easy … u will be bugged and all eyes are upon u it is like being famous the only diffence is that u have no fans but haters ….and my sister started bugging me about my friends and she hasn’t even got into my school already .. i tried speaking to my parents about moving her to another school but they were mad at me !!!!! i hate this i really hate this !!!!
a total nighmere, i feel like being aay from the states and moving to another country with a new life
PS, there is noway i can move to another school !!!!

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juliefooliesave offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (3 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Well it is not the same thing, but my Dad’s cousin, who was also his best friend was my art teacher for 4 years at school. I think I managed to go through 4 years without once calling him “Mr So_and_” and not calling him by his first name which I would do outside of school It was awkward so I know how you feel. With your father being Headmaster I think the best thing is if people start dumping on him say “remember, I’m in the room”, so you don’t have to listen to the haters. On the other hand tell the other students “I am a student just like you, I am not my father, but I don’t want to hear you talking down about him.”

I think the best thing is to realize many many students have younger brothers and sisters at the same school. You can look out and help your sister but you are not your sister’s keeper, you have your own grades and friendships to maintain. Talk with your parents about their expectations for you in regards to your sister, but remind them that she needs to stand on her own two feet.

Best of luck

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