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how do you get a guy or the guy you like to notice you?

? because im doing everything i can to get this one guy to notice me-i try to talk to him but no response- i walk behind him or next i watch him for afar buh he still doesn’t know theres a gurl wanting to know more from him what do i do?

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cjen offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 minute after post)

you stand in front of them and shout toothpaste then you start to act like a hieenah and giggle
trust me he will notice you

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seductionbebe offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 9 months ago (3 minutes after post)

lol but im too shy but tha giggle thing might work

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jl51 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (32 minutes after post)

just say hello, most guys would love girls to start talking to them, and get annoyed that it’s always them that has to start things or do things first, kissing or asking out or whatever. He’ll be flattered, you don’t have to ask him out just say hello. Try and ask an open ended question, something you know you have in common. If your in school, do you have the same homework, ask him he could explain a problem to you, guys love explaining stuff. He will only refuse if he’s really evil, then he’s not worth worrying about. Keep it light keep it simple you’re just saying hello, it’s nothing to worry about.

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seductionbebe offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 2 years, 9 months ago (46 minutes after post)

i wud ask him but hes not in my class and if he was he’d be askin me for help cause he’s dumb-i tried saying hello and all he said was wats up

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Mei Eishi offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 9 months ago (5 hours, 4 minutes after post)

you got to ask him about things, talk like a friend and let the relationship part wait a bit. he might not notice you if you don’t come across as a person who is interested in him. work at it, it will come.

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little-miss-scarlet offline Unverified User #
AU | 2 years, 9 months ago (3 days, 10 hours after post)

hey, i really like this guy but hes got a girlfriend what do i do, coz i really want to go out with him, and we are good friends and i dont want to stuff anything up?

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Mei Eishi offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 9 months ago (3 days, 21 hours after post)

if you dont want to mess it up, then dont be the reason that they break up. stay as a friend and wait for something to change between them, when it does, they will turn to close friends first and you will be at the top of their list. be there for him and he will see that you may be just what he wants in his life.

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headpinde offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

he dosnt even nno I exsist ! I hate it !

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kepeka18 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 month after post)

I have the same exact problem! one time i was in my crush’s way to dump his plate after he ate his lunch, and i didn’t realize he was waiting for me to move. so i turned and ended up like an inch or two away from his face. trust me when i say that that REALLY got his attention. I didn’t say sorry or anything because he was my crush and i didn’t know what to say, but i’m sure you could get more of your crush’s attention than i got mine’s attention. or, if you feel that that would be embarrassing, you could just do something simple like say hello or make eye contact and smile.

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An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (7 months, 4 weeks after post)

i really like this guy.he’s in my class.but this girl keeps messing with him.i kinda messed things up with this boy because,we were playing so i kinda stabbed him with a pen on the other side of his palm,you could see his bone,when i said sorry he was like yea watever.and i really like him a lot,he’s not talking to me and before we used to talk all the time,and he also used to hug me every time,but now he cant even say hi,plizzzzzzzzzz help

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