This post left anonymously
Why do the bad people get everything and the good people end up starving or suffering?
That is a common question asked. Most of all, it sucks for me. I don’t have anything to be happy for. I don’t have love or money. Everyday is just awful for me. I wait for love, I wait for happiness, where are you, where is it? I hate waiting. I know people tell me not to wait but to go get it but I just don’t know how to begin.
Since writing this post Anonymous may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days.
Post Tags (10)
If you would just wait and not do anything it will never happen for you. That’s how the world works. If you want something - make it happen. Sometimes it just turns out not so good…
Maybe you need to see what kind of changes that you can make to be more attractive as a mate. Most importantly, you need to gain some self confidence. Confidence is so important.
I’m not saying to change who you are as a person but we all have changes we can make to be more attractive.
If you don’t have money, why not? Get a job?
Are you male or female? And how old are you?
If you don’t have love, you’d need to prepare yourself to receive love. It’s not going to land on your lap with you doing nothing. Even if it does land on your lap, you’d still need to work daily to maintain it…
Also, to say all people that have happiness are bad is wrong :(.
I did not mean to say that. I meant that most of them are bad in my view. Anyways, I am sad because some people easily get everything. A beautiful person does not have to work to get someone to love them. At work, I don’t get promoted while this week a person that is a kiss *** does or someone that does not deserve to get promoted does. I also see that people hire their friends or give their friends the positions open. I mean is that legal? What can I do? I do my best everyday at work and no one notices my hard work. No one notices in general.
Life is not fair, deal with it. The term “fair” was invented to just make you feel better, it’s usually not used because it’s stupid really.
If you want good stuff to happen for you then you have to work towards it, be better than those around you and it’ll happen for you. Sitting on your a** and doing nothing but complaining will get you nowhere.
Promotions… to get one you must make sure that your superiors see that you deserve one. And sometimes that means kissing up to your boss if you really really want a promotion. That means that you care, if a person is just waiting and complaining and actually doing nothing then, for example I would never promote that person unless he would be great at what he does.
Hiring friends, that’s both legal and better than hiring random people. If you don’t like it then befriend those who can hire you before they hire you. Not peoples fault for having such friends, your own fault for being envious of those who have such friends while you ain’t got them.
Bottomline, you’re envious and hateful. Fix that if you want good stuff to happen to you.
Don’t wait, what’s even the point of waiting? You don’t get anything by waiting, nor do you progress, you’re wasting your time… And where to start? If I were you I’d start with myself. You don’t feel good about yourself it seems, and if you don’t feel good about yourself people won’t feel good about you because no one likes a negative Nancy.
Psalm 73 has an interesting answer to this question.
Waiting means wanting to receive something that you feel you are lacking. Since it is constantly in your subconscious that you are lacking something then of course you’re going to be miserable. Stop looking for love and money. This isn’t me saying be lazy and don’t do anything but stop obsessing over these things. Work on bettering yourself and figuring out what you want in life. Soo many people have money issues(some far worse than yours) and its up to you to figure out what you need to do to make your life more tolerable. As far as love goes, the more you have the more you receive ;P It’s one of the most attractive things. I stopped asking myself your question a long time ago because you never know what somebody else is going through firsthand and what they had to do to get where they are. For all you know they’re in a worse position than you are. Oh and you have two things to be happy for: you’re alive and you’re not dead haha :P
Ever heard of EVOLUTION???? The strongest is always the Winner.You cant remember,but as you once were a little Tadpole wriggling endlessly through Space and time untill YOU reached the Egg of Vertility,you did not care either about the other Brothers or Sisters,pushing them away brutally.. Or did YOU? Well what does it make you??????? Good or Bad?????
hahaha thats funny barbyman and DPT..
well moneys not happiness. but love wel thats the best thing in the world. i use to ask that question to myself when i lost a family member and continued to think why god would do that. but i think ive found myself, i believe that we each are getting tested in a way i guess. god gives one person richest and another nothing ! but i believe he does it to see what they take from it, who they become, what they do. and yeah waiting is jsut unbearable and being lonely is unbearable. i know. but i believe the reason your waiting so long is because your a good person, because a something so good is going to come to you. hold your head high, continue to be the good person you are. good things come to people who wait and i truely believe it. falling down is a part of life, but getting back up is living 3 get back up..
Invite Others to Help
A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.