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Everyone is equal.

Men, Women, Black, White, Asian, Mexican Jewish American we’re all the same. I believe this statement to be correct. But if everyone is equal, why do I feel so different?

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jiggli offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Maybe you feel different, not because of your race, but more so how you feel about yourself as a person.

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 9 months ago (8 minutes after post)

well if you look at Bill Gates who wouldn’t look at him as unequal.
He has $40 billion.A dirty drunk bum is not going to look equal.
So its in principal we are.

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Nmm29 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (11 minutes after post)

I know race has nothing to do with it, but I have no idea how I turned out the way I am. The only people I talk to are people I met over help.com, as people in my school are talking and laughing I’m sitting there not even saying a word. When I’m asked a question the teacher can’t even hear me answer because I’m so quiet. As others walk around and converse I sit there quiet and alone, as if an outcast. Hell the only thing my parents know about me is my name and my birthday, not because they don’t care but because I’m quiet.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Because we are all different and unique. That statement was a generalization, we are all human, have the same organs and daily functions. But under all of the specifics are all completely different people, we all see and feel things so differently. So I would have to disagree with that statement all Men, Women, Black, White, Asian, Mexican Jewish American, are different, but are all equal due to the fact that we commonly share the same differences.

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 117 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (21 minutes after post)

We aren’t all equal. Its a silly and meaningless little phrase. We are all humans, we all share a lot in common. We all deserve fair treatment from eachother.

See what I’m getting at?

What does “equal” mean? Nothing. Maybe equally deserving of a CHANCE.

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Sparrowhawk offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (31 minutes after post)

We are not equal. If we were, the world would be quite a different place.

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SeesaChic offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Why don’t you try to become unquiet ;)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

I also thing like this,I think every people in the world is equal.
http://revitadermnow.com

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

Talk to your Parents… Ask them to take you to Drama School.You need nothing but confidence there you will learn the Trade.. Some have a natural Ability to converse and some have not.Though its normal and if you the quite Type ,well you can become a Leader and in the End no one can stop.Yes ask your Parents……

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Nmm29 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (5 hours, 25 minutes after post)

SummerChic wrote:
Why don’t you try to become unquiet ;)

You make it sound so easy XD

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SeesaChic offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (13 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Nmm29 wrote:

SummerChic wrote:
Why don’t you try to become unquiet ;)

You make it sound so easy XD

It’s definitely easier than you think. It will be little by little but as long as you’re trying it can change. Like, try to do things you wouldn’t normally do. When you answer questions in class speak up, if youre right what good will it make if the teacher can’t hear? You said when everyone walks around and converse you sit as if you’re an outcast. Did anyone cast you out? Or are you doing it yourself? Most of the time all the anxiety and shyness is in your head, if you’re friendly with others then they will most likely be friendly back.

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 117 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (16 hours, 11 minutes after post)

Nmm29 wrote:
I know race has nothing to do with it, but I have no idea how I turned out the way I am. The only people I talk to are people I met over help.com, as people in my school are talking and laughing I’m sitting there not even saying a word. When I’m asked a question the teacher can’t even hear me answer because I’m so quiet. As others walk around and converse I sit there quiet and alone, as if an outcast. Hell the only thing my parents know about me is my name and my birthday, not because they don’t care but because I’m quiet.

I was this way for a long time.

I came to the point where I had to make a choice. Do I want to be heard? Can I take the possibility of embarrassment? Of failure?

I could. I did.

And now I am better for it.

Try.

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Nmm29 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (21 hours, 22 minutes after post)

SummerChic wrote:

Nmm29 wrote:
SummerChic wrote:
Why don’t you try to become unquiet ;)

You make it sound so easy XD

It’s definitely easier than you think. It will be little by little but as long as you’re trying it can change. Like, try to do things you wouldn’t normally do. When you answer questions in class speak up, if youre right what good will it make if the teacher can’t hear? You said when everyone walks around and converse you sit as if you’re an outcast. Did anyone cast you out? Or are you doing it yourself? Most of the time all the anxiety and shyness is in your head, if you’re friendly with others then they will most likely be friendly back.

XD I’ve been like this for 14 years of my life, I don’t think it’ll be a simple task lol. But your enthusiasm is contagious XD might try speaking up but I might feel to embarest to do it again.

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Nmm29 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (21 hours, 25 minutes after post)

Snar wrote:

Nmm29 wrote:
I know race has nothing to do with it, but I have no idea how I turned out the way I am. The only people I talk to are people I met over help.com, as people in my school are talking and laughing I’m sitting there not even saying a word. When I’m asked a question the teacher can’t even hear me answer because I’m so quiet. As others walk around and converse I sit there quiet and alone, as if an outcast. Hell the only thing my parents know about me is my name and my birthday, not because they don’t care but because I’m quiet.

I was this way for a long time.

I came to the point where I had to make a choice. Do I want to be heard? Can I take the possibility of embarrassment? Of failure?

I could. I did.

And now I am better for it.

Try.

Lol I will try but I’m shy and embarest XD kinda exactly the same lol

Snar wrote:

Nmm29 wrote:
I know race has nothing to do with it, but I have no idea how I turned out the way I am. The only people I talk to are people I met over help.com, as people in my school are talking and laughing I’m sitting there not even saying a word. When I’m asked a question the teacher can’t even hear me answer because I’m so quiet. As others walk around and converse I sit there quiet and alone, as if an outcast. Hell the only thing my parents know about me is my name and my birthday, not because they don’t care but because I’m quiet.

I was this way for a long time.

I came to the point where I had to make a choice. Do I want to be heard? Can I take the possibility of embarrassment? Of failure?

I could. I did.

And now I am better for it.

Try.

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SeesaChic offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (22 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Yeah and I’ve been a push over for longer than that. Until I learned to be confident and stick up for myself. All on my own because nobody can change something like that except for yourself. Like I said, it won’t happen over night but as long as your willing and you keep trying you can break any habit.

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SeesaChic offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (22 hours, 15 minutes after post)

What are you embarrased about? Making a mistake, looking stupid? I guarantee you that will happen either way so that’s all clear lol

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Nmm29 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (22 hours, 30 minutes after post)

I used to be a pushover…my change was instead of answering snick comments or jerks with a responce I continued what I was doing, not talking, just ignoring. In a way, you could say the shyness and quietness WAS the change XD

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Nmm29 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (22 hours, 33 minutes after post)

I’m afraid of people judging me, holding an opinion. I know this sounds stupid but I’m also shy and quiet because I don’t want to be noticed. Wether its a good or bad thing I might have done, I don’t want anyone to know. Just pass by me like nothing happened. Not even talk to me. Or even know who I am. And so far, that’s true. No one knows who I am. This is also what I want to change, but to afraid to actually change.

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SeesaChic offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (23 hours after post)

Yeah but you need to understand that people are going to judge and hold an opinion of you whether you’re quiet or you speak up. People already have an opinion of you, they already know you as the person who never talks and you give them the freedom to make a judgement and have it stick. When you speak up, you can sometimes change that opinion and show people who you really are. If you really enjoyed not being noticed then this post wouldn’t exist. You know?

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Nmm29 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (23 hours, 5 minutes after post)

SummerChic wrote:
Yeah but you need to understand that people are going to judge and hold an opinion of you whether you’re quiet or you speak up. People already have an opinion of you, they already know you as the person who never talks and you give them the freedom to make a judgement and have it stick. When you speak up, you can sometimes change that opinion and show people who you really are. If you really enjoyed not being noticed then this post wouldn’t exist. You know?

In a way yes but also no XD read some of my comments from the ‘blah blah blah’ post and you’ll see why :)

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Joy. offline Verified User (6 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 day, 14 hours after post)

just because your equal doesnt make you the same.

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nikki-leigh offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 week after post)

Hmmm… I don’t think equality is ever to be likely and I’m not too sure it’s desirable. The world will always have the leaders, the followers and the undecided. The leaders create opportunities and solutions, the followers make the leader’s decisions possible and the undecided are the ones who stand by and watch others live the life they should be leading themself.
In saying this, don’t be in a rush to decide who you are, it will come to you eventualy, just make the conscious decision to figure it out.
Good luck mate, xx

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 week after post)

nikki-leigh wrote:
Hmmm… I don’t think equality is ever to be likely and I’m not too sure it’s desirable. The world will always have the leaders, the followers and the undecided. The leaders create opportunities and solutions, the followers make the leader’s decisions possible and the undecided are the ones who stand by and watch others live the life they should be leading themself.
In saying this, don’t be in a rush to decide who you are, it will come to you eventualy, just make the conscious decision to figure it out.
Good luck mate, xx

You have an excellent point there.

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nikki-leigh offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 week after post)

class of 2012 wrote:

nikki-leigh wrote:
Hmmm… I don’t think equality is ever to be likely and I’m not too sure it’s desirable. The world will always have the leaders, the followers and the undecided. The leaders create opportunities and solutions, the followers make the leader’s decisions possible and the undecided are the ones who stand by and watch others live the life they should be leading themself.
In saying this, don’t be in a rush to decide who you are, it will come to you eventualy, just make the conscious decision to figure it out.
Good luck mate, xx

You have an excellent point there.

Why thank you kind sir/madame!! ;)

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Anonymous #
1 year, 8 months ago (3 weeks, 2 days after post)

Equal =/= the same. Everyone deserves the same rights/privliges, but will use the different;y.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 8 months ago (1 month after post)

Why don’t you try small steps? If speaking up in class is a little too much, try practicing getting your voice out with some of your internet friends. There are voice chat programs like Skype, Steam, or Vent you could get on to work on it.

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Nmm29 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 month after post)

I’m less quiet now and I can’t really use skype no web cam

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Anonymous #
1 year, 8 months ago (1 month after post)

Well that’s great. :) And.. as long as you have a mic, Skype works fine. You kind of have to pay to use the group video call thing anyway.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 month after post)

Do you want to see my Bank Account???????Definately not Equal….”Poverty Line”….

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