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Memories of my ex boyfriend are giving me alot of grief lately.

He broke up with me, but he said he missed me and. So we hung out a couple of times, but it was torture for me knowing that it would never be what I wanted it to be. Not everybody gets what they want but it just hurt me soooo deeply. I texted him one day telling him that I won’t be hanging out anymore. Then I asked him to forget about me promising that I’d forget about him, he refused point blank and said that he wouldn’t because I was always kind to him and that forgetting was like regret it and he said he would never regret knowing me. Well some months later here I am now knowing that its hurting him cause he misses me…I miss him too. Its almost, almost as painful as being near him and knowing things won’t work out. Lose lose situation for me. I wish people in my life meant less to me so that I could get over them faster like others do. I’m still at a loss of what to do or to do nothing at all.

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firefishie offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

I used to be so hung up on my boyfriend too, and we even hooked up a couple of times, but it led to the absolute worst decisions of my life. Might sound cheesy like some don’t do drugs ad but it was pretty bad for me… My lesson is to only allow 1 more chance. When it goes in a direction I don’t like I try to move on. That means no contact with them until I’m no longer in pieces. He is dragging you down you have to realize this. There’s a reason why you broke up anyways so why would it work then?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (5 hours, 34 minutes after post)

High school, right?

Please remember: high school romance = practice romance.

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