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i really need help i can’t get any boyfriends i have

on had 2 and that 2 me is crap but i feel sooooooooooooo left out with my friends all of them hav boyfriends and sometimes thay go with them at the same time and i am left allown and i feel like ie want 2 die PLZ HELP!!!!!!!

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Jigoku Shoujo offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 177 #
Dubai, 03, AE | 2 years, 9 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Boyfriends are not accessories, like a handbag, you need to be in a relationship when you find a person with the right chemistry.

A relationship is not something you order online or get at a supermarket it takes time to meet a suitable person, not Mr. Perfect, but at least to find someone who respects and is sincere to you.

Of course you feel left out and unhappy, but in order to be happy you need to get your priorities right, how would you feel if you were with a guy who would be with you because his friends have girlfriends and he feels left out!

Try to make new friends who are single and share the same hobbies, that is less stressful, there is no harm in having more friends, instead of horrible emotionally harming relationships. Take care.

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deaflegacy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Langley, BC, CA | 2 years, 9 months ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

Boyfriends = love
No love = no relationships
Love = boyfriends

Does that make sense to you, dear, that you cannot just get a boyfriend because you feel all alone? If it was a perfect world, then we would all be in relationships and be happy for the rest of our lives!

But this is not a perfect world so keep an eye out for someone you can love because having a boyfriend means loving someone, not because you feel all alone. It doesn’t work that way because boyfriend and girlfriend work two way street.

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amallo offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 year, 2 months after post)

okay so you had two bad relationships…just wait…the right guy will come…and if you have guy friends that you like…or dont like (in that way) then maybe you could ask them to go out…just as friends, with your other friends…then maybe you may spark something up!

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