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Um, well, how can you tell if a boy likes you?

I mean, I have to two friends who are boys and I don’t know really, one is real nice to me and the other is nice, but not as nice as the other one. They both accept my hugs but, boy 1 (real nice) hugs me with his arms around my neck and the other one hugs me between waist and boob area. Boy 2, likes to make me laugh and knows I care and stuff, we talk a lot about things and we have a lot alike, but boy 1, he makes me happy and says hi to all the time. Idkr someone help?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Boy 2 in my opinion sounds like he likes you more. A hug at the waist is usually more affectionate than around the neck. Take for example when you hug a parent, the higher the hands the more the feelings are nuetral, where as lower usually means holding the body closer and well that the connection is stronger.

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1 year, 7 months ago (3 hours, 27 minutes after post)

When they pull on your hair and stick glue in your hair. That’s how you know. Jk that’s very elementary school. :) Try to think of it this way if you can. If both of them were to move away which one would you miss the most. If you’d feel like you’d miss them both equally. Who do you feel more comfortable and yourself around? Like the person who you feel you could really cut loose in front of and he’d be right there with you or eiher just laughing with you.

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1 year, 7 months ago (4 hours, 23 minutes after post)

It depends, it can be difficult to tell from just how they hug you or if they’re friendly to you, they might just be being friends. Look at how they act with other girls, see if they act differently with you. Do they hug you more? Talk to you more? And when they’re talking to you, look at how they act. If they seem really interested in you rather than everyone else, like if they turn towards you and look at you more, they could like you. It’s best not to speculate too much though, people are often good at hiding what they’re thinking and feeling.

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