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its so hard being different…

i feel like i don’t have any real friends i can just joke around with & we have the same things in common…i’m always being teased that i’m wierd or emo or gothic and stuff because i don’t like the same stuff. like, they’ll talk about shows and music and things and i’ll know a little bit about what they’re talking about. they’ll talk about listening to Lil’Wayne and Rick Ross and mess like that and i rather listen to LMFAO or MyChemical Romance and Black Veil Brides. they’ll talk about 106 & Park or So Random! and i’ll be thinking “oh, i don’t watch that at all! i watch Jersey Shore or Death Valley” its only a couple of people who understand me and don’t make me feel like and outcast…i’m just waiting for 8th grade to be over so i can go to high-school where i’ll fit i better…. -_-

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[Gone]2511 offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 minutes after post)

I hate My Chemical Romance…

But anyways, you should try to meet with ppl with the same interests as you.
You can’t rly be friends with someone that’s so different (unless their personality is kinda special).

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iHeartGir offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

i’m trying to meet new ppl, but its super hard…..

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[Gone]2511 offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

how are trying to?

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Mashid offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (6 minutes after post)

You and my step brother would get along so nicely. He is like the odd one out of all of us.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (7 minutes after post)

yeah, you don’t really have much to choose from when you’re in middle school.. Things will be better once you’re in highschool and have a license and can drive to places where you’ll be able to meet more diverse people. you just gotta hang in there till then i guess like you said

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lauryn offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (12 minutes after post)

dont worry about people just blast your tunes and get through school

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Help me with: im tired of my “friends” lying to me… its not like i will care if they tell the truth i just want the lying
iHeartGir offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

@ yup ~im trying to join different groups & stuff
@ morissa ~ :) really?
@ lost in paradise ~ yeah but its taking forever to come -_-

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[Gone]2511 offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Have you tried forums, fan pages of the bands and brands you like? going to places who have that kind of style?

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iHeartGir offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (17 minutes after post)

@ lauryn ~ yeah, i’ll try. thanks

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Mashid offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (23 minutes after post)

@iHeartGir ~ yep. he likees all the things you said you like and he thinks Lil Wayne’s music label is stupid (which i dont agree with)he loves rock songs and hates hip hop.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (32 minutes after post)

You said: “its only a couple of people who understand me and don’t make me feel like and outcast”….what is wrong with these couple people? Obviously you share things in common with them so what are you looking for besides that?

As you get older,you will realize that you will have only a few close friends and a lot of acquaintance. High school, college, it won’t matter you will still only have a few close friends that you share everything with and others that are friends that you don’t share everything with. So, get together with those “couple of people who understand me” and don’t worry about everyone else.

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jok3r offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (13 hours, 51 minutes after post)

I love Invader Zim! See it’s not that hard. :) We already have something in common! I don’t watch a lot of TV (espesially not Jersey Shore *GAG* Haha!) but I really like Invader Zim when it was on

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lauryn offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (20 hours, 8 minutes after post)

i dont fit in any where either.. i have tried public school privite school and home school… and i still feel as alone as i did… the best thing really is blast some tunes go for walks run maybe do your school and live…

my best friend and boy friend lives over a thousands miles from me it is so hard… but i try to keep going thats all you can do

i know there are the “couple” of people that are kinda the same as you but i understand its not the same as being able to fit in somewhere…

the best thing i can say is hang in there things should go up from there..

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