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Never done it, never will. Strongly discourage doing it too.

I have done it three times. It’s really sad. I didn’t mean to do it. I just can’t commit :(

i have unfortunately but not for love, i did it for the freebies(dinner/outings/dates/etc).

I guess it stems out of insecurity, y’know? It’s nice to know there’s always someone there.

i know a few ppl who can’t be alone. they jump from relationship to relationship and drag on the current one ’till they find someone new. doesn’t matter how bad it is, having someone who pretends they give a crap is still somewhat of a comfort i guess. idk maybe it’s not, haven’t experienced it myself.

I have never done such a thing. I believe in karma.
What goes around, comes around.

Never done it, never will (married now!) Honesty and integrity are everything to me, as are morals.
agree that it probably stems from insecurity or perhaps deep rooted self rejection.

I’ve done it. Sometimes one’s necesities are stronger than one’s moralities, and when loneliness has been stabing you for a ridiculously long time…well…using someone you don’t love as a meat shield becomes the solution you were looking for, and one you will regret later on.

A lose, lose situation if you ask me…

Never did it, don’t think it’s worth it.. Lost a lot of friends who wished I did. You don’t want to be a jerk by using people, but then you become a jerk for rejecting people who want to be used. It doesn’t make much sense to me at all.

We’ve all done it, and then they ask you out and you start to ignore them at all cost.

I have done, but only because I am scared of people getting to know who I really am & how I am feeling. I throw them out before they reject me! All I want is to be able to love.

Nope, never done it. Some people are like that, some people aren’t. Guard your heart, be careful with it… it takes a lot of time to really get to know someone. Sorry you’re going through this.

My bf use to do it to women after his last “relationship” cheated on him with his best friend…He led women on feeling nothing for them…You may ask how I can trust his feelings for me: his friends have said “he’s never been like this with anyone!” and it’s been 3 years…:)