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Xingese.Phantom
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Ok, I need some advice on a guy.

I’m a freshman college student who didn’t date in high school–for lack of interest in the guys of my rather small class, and the fact that I was a geek and a bit dense when it came to flirting. You could have called me an…ah…’ugly duckling’, I suppose.

Now that I’m in college I’m starting to come into myself, I’d like to think. I’m eating healthier and working out more than I ever did in high school, and I’m trying to be more outgoing, rather than the shy little bird I was 6 months ago. In 1 month, I’ve made more friends than I did the entire time I was in public school.

Now to the meat of my problem. Like I said before, in high school I was on the antisocial side. I’ve never had a boyfriend—I’ve never even been kissed before. In college I’m hoping to change that. There’s this guy I like– we’re in the same chemistry class and lab together. Even though we aren’t partners, we tend to get together a lot to study together. More than either of us get with our respective partners. We actually did just a bit ago to study for a test. Also, we’ve been going together to a horror movie marathon most nights this month, which the rest of our friends usually don’t go to. He’s usually the one to suggest we have these study meetings and asks if I want to go to the movie. He’s really sweet and nice, and I hope I’m not reading to much into this. What do y’all think?

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WillowDove offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

aw!!!!! I think it sounds cute! I’m a senior in High School and I’m really shy and stuff and I’m hoping to change that once I get into college. Honestly, this post has given me a little bit of hope that I too can be more outgoing too… but enough about me, this post is about you! What I would do is continue to take things slow the way it’s beeing going and just to see how your relationship grows. I don’t think you’re reading too much into it. Just keep getting to know each other and I’m sure I hope you guys can be very happy together. Best of luck to you, my friend. :D

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 24 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 8 months ago (10 hours, 28 minutes after post)

A guy doesn’t ask as girl to do anything with him unless he likes her!

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