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o.k so…

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my sister is getting married….
and my other sister and I decide to put a slideshow together -with music …the couple as kids…and like all feel good vibes…
so we contact the mother in law asking her to borrow some pics of her son as a boy and she said: “no, my daughter(groom’s sister) and I decided that slide shows are boring so we’d rather not give you the photo’s”
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Angie. offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 175 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Lol! Mils dont you just love them! I have one like that trust me they can get worse!!

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CodyCorona offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (9 minutes after post)

wtf?!? this lady sounds like shes on a power trip! id say make a **** slide show anyway XD

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

you think!? my blood is boiling ….. They are extremely rich and snobby .
slideshows are awesome! I don’t know what they are on about?!

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CodyCorona offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (19 minutes after post)

my guess is that she wants to have as much control over what happens as she can. id ask the groom and bride what they think, unless you wanted this all to be secret. that way you can see how they feel about it, if they say yes and that lady is still trippin on you, you can say “please refer to bride and groom, seeing as they allowed to me to do so. please hand over your picture before i force you to give them to me!” haha jk bout the quote :]

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CodyCorona offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (23 minutes after post)

i need money too, and this is not the place to ask

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wayjo offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Make the slide show, but use pictures of deputy dawg, road runner etc, for the son and explain why there aren’t any real pictures.(hehehe)

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DearDeer offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (28 minutes after post)

AgreeToDisagree wrote:
my guess is that she wants to have as much control over what happens as she can. id ask the groom and bride what they think, unless you wanted this all to be secret. that way you can see how they feel about it, if they say yes and that lady is still trippin on you, you can say “please refer to bride and groom, seeing as they allowed to me to do so. please hand over your picture before i force you to give them to me!” haha jk bout the quote :]

I wanted it to be a secret…..but that’s actually n great idea…. hehe love the quote

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DearDeer offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Sunnyokoh198 wrote:
Pls i need money help me, i’m a student: i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>

you think this will work dude? really? wow…that’s amazing.

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DearDeer offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (31 minutes after post)

wayjo wrote:
Make the slide show, but use pictures of deputy dawg, road runner etc, for the son and explain why there aren’t any real pictures.(hehehe)

I’m totally doing that!!!!!

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CodyCorona offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (32 minutes after post)

DearDeer wrote:

AgreeToDisagree wrote:
my guess is that she wants to have as much control over what happens as she can. id ask the groom and bride what they think, unless you wanted this all to be secret. that way you can see how they feel about it, if they say yes and that lady is still trippin on you, you can say “please refer to bride and groom, seeing as they allowed to me to do so. please hand over your picture before i force you to give them to me!” haha jk bout the quote :]

I wanted it to be a secret…..but that’s actually n great idea…. hehe love the quote

haha! i tend to have decent ideas, not usually this early in the morning tho. and the quote was for some added spice to it lmfao! :D

but yea surprises are 100% awesome, but would you really want to put all this time into a slideshow just to have it not work out for some reason or another? i think i would ask the bride and groom, cause in the end its their day not the mother in laws ;D

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CodyCorona offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (32 minutes after post)

DearDeer wrote:

wayjo wrote:
Make the slide show, but use pictures of deputy dawg, road runner etc, for the son and explain why there aren’t any real pictures.(hehehe)

I’m totally doing that!!!!!

HAHAHAHAHA

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DearDeer offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (37 minutes after post)

the only other problem is that it’s a very sensitive situation. (the wedding)
our parents died so it’s just us sisters …. the grooms family is massive..the mother in law invited 30 guests (friends)
my sister does not even know..(she said to my sister..” oh, dont worry i’m paying for the 30 people)

my sister is so soft and kind and she is so scared of what the fancy shmancy family thinks of her that she is oblivious to their awfulness…..

sadly she would agree to everything they say…without knowing it.

she would be devastated if she knew we went through with the slideshow even though the queen bee disapproved

so i’m not sure anymore.. I have a ‘**** you ‘ attitude to what people think but my sister who is getting married cares very much.

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CodyCorona offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (40 minutes after post)

DearDeer wrote:
the only other problem is that it’s a very sensitive situation. (the wedding)
our parents died so it’s just us sisters …. the grooms family is massive..the mother in law invited 30 guests (friends)
my sister does not even know..(she said to my sister..” oh, dont worry i’m paying for the 30 people)

my sister is so soft and kind and she is so scared of what the fancy shmancy family thinks of her that she is oblivious to their awfulness…..

sadly she would agree to everything they say…without knowing it.

she would be devastated if she knew we went through with the slideshow even though the queen bee disapproved

so i’m not sure anymore.. I have a ‘**** you ‘ attitude to what people think but my sister who is getting married cares very much.

wait, so your sister would be sad if you made a slideshow when the mother in law disapproved?!? wtf, make a slide show of the days you had with your family growing up! if that ***** of a mother in law, has a problem with you putting up a slideshow of your family back in the day, then she doesnt deserve to be at the wedding! :[

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wayjo offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (41 minutes after post)

AgreeToDisagree wrote:

DearDeer wrote:
the only other problem is that it’s a very sensitive situation. (the wedding)
our parents died so it’s just us sisters …. the grooms family is massive..the mother in law invited 30 guests (friends)
my sister does not even know..(she said to my sister..” oh, dont worry i’m paying for the 30 people)

my sister is so soft and kind and she is so scared of what the fancy shmancy family thinks of her that she is oblivious to their awfulness…..

sadly she would agree to everything they say…without knowing it.

she would be devastated if she knew we went through with the slideshow even though the queen bee disapproved

so i’m not sure anymore.. I have a ‘**** you ‘ attitude to what people think but my sister who is getting married cares very much.

wait, so your sister would be sad if you made a slideshow when the mother in law disapproved?!? wtf, make a slide show of the days you had with your family growing up! if that ***** of a mother in law, has a problem with you putting up a slideshow of your family back in the day, then she doesnt deserve to be at the wedding! :[

Good idea!

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DearDeer offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (53 minutes after post)

just spoke to my other sister,,,,, she said we are canceling the slideshow….:(
it was her initial idea.

so bleh….
but thanks all…..
i still feel like doing it though

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CodyCorona offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

if i was you, id make a legit slideshow, and give it to your sister as a gift,that way she still gets to see it. :( wish you the best!

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wayjo offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

AgreeToDisagree wrote:
if i was you, id make a legit slideshow, and give it to your sister as a gift,that way she still gets to see it. :( wish you the best!

another brilliant and considerate idea :)

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Sans offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

DearDeer wrote:
you think!? my blood is boiling ….. They are extremely rich and snobby .
slideshows are awesome! I don’t know what they are on about?!

Make a slide show and instead of photos of him, put in a graphic saying “Missing photo due to biotch of a mother in law not letting us use any.”

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CodyCorona offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

wayjo wrote:

AgreeToDisagree wrote:
if i was you, id make a legit slideshow, and give it to your sister as a gift,that way she still gets to see it. :( wish you the best!

another brilliant and considerate idea :)

thank you :]

Sans Unleashed wrote:

DearDeer wrote:
you think!? my blood is boiling ….. They are extremely rich and snobby .
slideshows are awesome! I don’t know what they are on about?!

Make a slide show and instead of photos of him, put in a graphic saying “Missing photo due to biotch of a mother in law not letting us use any.”

i have a feeling this would be awesome, but impractical ;]

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DearDeer offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

AgreeToDisagree wrote:
if i was you, id make a legit slideshow, and give it to your sister as a gift,that way she still gets to see it. :( wish you the best!

Thanks . :)

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CodyCorona offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

you are very very welcome :]

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DearDeer offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

come have tea with me…. I baked some gingerbread men .

AgreeToDisagree wrote:
you are very very welcome :]

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

owww monster in lawww!!!!!
I wish im near to ponch her!

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DearDeer offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

kill her with kindness.
no wait…. break off her arm.

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

DearDeer wrote:
kill her with kindness.
no wait…. break off her arm.

It was a nice idea to make the photo’s thing!
shes angry Your sister is going to steal her son from her..!

;) yeah i will broke her legs and arm so she dont come to the weeding and it would be better..

PS: im joking !

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CodyCorona offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
owww monster in lawww!!!!!
I wish im near to ponch her!

lmao, howd i know youd say something like that!

DearDeer wrote:
kill her with kindness.
no wait…. break off her arm.

i dont think there is a way to be kind and nice to someone who is rich, and has their money stuck up their ****. just saying :]

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Jalex offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

DearDeer wrote:
kill her with kindness.
no wait…. break off her arm.

Break off her arm with kindness.

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DearDeer offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

Jalex wrote:

DearDeer wrote:
kill her with kindness.
no wait…. break off her arm.

Break off her arm with kindness.

Genius!!!

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

AgreeToDisagree wrote:

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
owww monster in lawww!!!!!
I wish im near to ponch her!

lmao, howd i know youd say something like that!

DearDeer wrote:
kill her with kindness.
no wait…. break off her arm.

i dont think there is a way to be kind and nice to someone who is rich, and has their money stuck up their ****. just saying :]

loooool ! ;)

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wayjo offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

Do a slide show of the MIL and her daughters. Include recordings of phone calls etc.

Mmmmmmmm sweet….

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

save me a piece of cake now ok…poster!

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DearDeer offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

Will do..:)

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
save me a piece of cake now ok…poster!

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 37 minutes after post)

DearDeer wrote:
Will do..:)

ℓινιηg4уσυ wrote:
save me a piece of cake now ok…poster!

ty dear.

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DearDeer offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

ty ?

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

DearDeer wrote:
ty ?

thank you. i mean by ty.

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CodyCorona offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

hahaha^^^^ deardeer, you didnt know ty meant thank you?!? uhohhhh weve got a problem now :]

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ℓινιηg4уσυ offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

AgreeToDisagree wrote:
hahaha^^^^ deardeer, you didnt know ty meant thank you?!? uhohhhh weve got a problem now :]

lol

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 21 minutes after post)

Hire a stripper and don’t tell her. When he complains say “but I thought you didn’t like boring weddings…” I just did it for you.

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wayjo offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (2 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Get them to change the MILs name badge at her reception seat to “Wicked Witch of the West”

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DearDeer offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 hours, 13 minutes after post)

everyone gets a golden star!!! you guys are witty today.
no I’m not familiar with texting language I prefer to write my words out.

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CodyCorona offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 hours, 16 minutes after post)

yes!!! a golden star!!!! hell yes! “ty” for my golden star :P

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 hours, 27 minutes after post)

She might not agree with the marriage. Sadly she might not really like you. If I was you I would confront your man and tell him.

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