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really insecure,should I just dump him ?
okay so a little details,my bf and me,we’re 19 and been together for 3 years,so here’s the problem,my bf met this girl who he finds awesome because she’s kinda like him,metal chick,weird blue hair and well I’m the opposite a total girly girl,metal and me are like way apart
the problem,she likes him
she knows I’m his gf and still is clingy
my bf thinks I’m crazy,and doesn’t believe me but I’m a girl and I’ve seen the way she looks at him and gives me these nasty looks
thirdly he wants to make a band with her so they always talk
she keeps texting him,and my bf keeps encouraging her,I think he’s attracted to her
I told him I’m not comfortable with the way things are going and he’s not listening he’s bringing up things like I asked a friend for his number but that was because I needed him to complete a sociology survey.
anyway today she asked him to go shopping with her and he said he’ll go,he knows i don’t like it,still he said I’ll take my brother along
what do I do,its getting on my nerves,should I just leave him or tell hm to choose,i told him to maintain a slight distance,he isn’t listening,they talk everyday,I can’t tolerate it,if i would’ve done the same he would’ve eaten me up,what should I do ?
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