Love help: Why me… what is wrong with me? - Help.com

Relationships aren’t always secure. I doubt there is anything wrong with you. Perhaps you should look at yourself a little more and do what feels right for you. Don’t give yourself to everyone. You should try to find a balance of making your partner happy and making yourself happy. Don’t forget, the only person who will be with you for your entire life, is you.

Do not leave yourself too open and vulnerable to women. Sometimes they like it when a man is a little tough and rough. A lot of ******* (I am one, a lesbian, also) take men for granted and when they get bored they just dump him to the side. Maybe you’re letting too much of yourself out. You have to make for some mystery so there is still something they don’t know about you but they can find out when you’ve hit the 25 year anniversary mark. Maybe you should find someone a little below your expectations that will ADORE you and yearn for you. Instead on people out of your league. Or- *******

I’ve always believed in being up front with people. BUt I have to agree with lynn, don’t let ‘em push you around.

i hope your feeling a little bit better today. =) i think that, well it takes two to make a relationship work and not just one person, even if you do all the right things. maybe in your previous marriage, it didnt work out because she wasnt “all” there, and it had nothing to do with you. and this relationship your in now, get out before its too deep. you dont want to be in a relationship where your dragged along for the time being while she is confused and trying to figure her emotions and whatnot. Im not implying that you should never be in a relationship with this woman, but simply stating let her be until she “settles” down and is content and ready to take on love and continue on with the relationship, because if you dont it only leaves you in a “turmoil” of confusion and troubles. i hope all works out and if they dont and you still feel its you, ask them =) let us know what happens next =)

The key is to realize that they are not ready for you.

Define the woman you desire to be with, then become the kind of man that would attract that kind of woman. Develop yourself. Your communication, your wisdom, your financial understandings, your talents, gifts, handshake, your written communication, your dress code and then watch out. :)

How are you now?