what is wrong with me? I was married at the age of 25 and just weeks after my 5 month anniversary, my wife went on an outing with her friends and cheated on me. When she came back from her trip she said that she didn’t love me anymore so I moved out. I wasn’t until 2 months later I found out she cheated on me. I waiting almost a year before I dated again, and I found a woman that seemed so perfect for me… then 4 days ago, without any warning, she tells me that she loves me and I am everything she looks for in a man/relationship but she was confused and couldn’t go on seeing me but we’ve been together for 10 months. It’s killing me, what the hell is wrong with me… I’ve always been outgoing, fun, openminded, what is it I have to do. I try so hard to make my partner happy and without any warning they drop the bomb on me. If there is something wrong why don’t people talk to me about it? Why does it scare me so much? Why does it hurt so much? I don’t expect any answers but I need to get this out… I just am so confused.
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