my gf an I have been dating for 8 months, and I’m worried.
We have an amazing bond. we share views and values and can only open up to each other. Over the past month, her stresses have increased. She recently lost a childhood friend (because they’ve been growing apart) and school work is piling up and taking a toll.
To add to it, sex has been lacking. I have a hard time lasting in bed (ie. premature ejaculation), and she has never orgasmed before (not even with her ex-boyfriend). The past month has been especially poor, and yesterday while having sex she began to cry because she “wasn’t feeling anything”. She has a hard time getting into the mood for sex, and I feel that all her stresses are doing this to her. She is positive our relationship is one of a kind, but worries that lack of good sex will lead to a downhill and us turning into friends.
This has scared me. I love her, and know she’s my lifelong love. What can I do to change things? I want to please her, I want her to orgasm, and I want her to be happy.
Any help you can provide me with is GREATLY appreciated.
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