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Someone once told me that psychologically, men have a harder time keeping their attention towards things not directly in front of them (or close).

Is this, possibly, why the guy I like seems to be a bit distant?We agreed to be honest about how we felt and everything, so I feel like he would have either completely blown me off by now, or in the least told me he was too busy/ distracted/ not interested. He still responds very quickly, and I know he’s busy. But I’m 3000 miles away so, it’s easy to not have me in mind that much. We live completely different lives.

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1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

he’s busy, he’s working, which requires concentration, he answers when you call and uh, he’s 3000 miles away …. he’s a long distance friend, and that’s o.k.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (9 hours, 3 minutes after post)

what do you mean, he seems distant?

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