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I can’t graduate High School, even though I have excellent grades unless I pay a fee?

There is this thing called “senior dues” which is a package of things like dances, yearbooks and a ton of senior only events. It’s like 200-400 dollars. I figured since I don’t want to go to these events (i honesty hate prom) and I dont want a yearbook that I won’t pay but a friend told me in class that if I do not pay these dues I won’t be able to graduate. I asked her what she meant. She said that at these senior events (the senior breakfast) they measure you for your cap and gown. I questioned her stating I didn’t want a cap and gown. She told me that I wouldn’t be able to go to the graduation ceremony and I wont get my diploma. I asked her why I’d have to do that. What if the ceremony and gown are against my beliefs/religion and that I’d rather just be given my diploma. She said I should just pay the senior dues or I won’t receive my diploma and the school won’t send my transcript to the college I apply to.

I think that is stupid! I have to pay $200-400 just to graduate? The funds of the stupid dues mostly go to pay for these events that I refuse to go to. Plus I’m a fulltime student! I don’t have 200-400 dollars to pocket for a prom I don’t want to go to or for a yearbook I already know what it looks like (I’m in the yearbook club). My grades are excellent. I have college credit. Why do I have to fork over money just to graduate?

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forsakentenshi offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
BD | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Eh? Paying for extra, non-mandatory things don’t you want to graduate seems a bit silly. Maybe your friend doesn’t know the details. Talk to a teacher or someone else at school that would really know.

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Dollface offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I googled it and it appears to be true (some school do this). If I have to pay a fee for my diploma, I will but everything else is stupid!

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forsakentenshi offline Verified User (6 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
BD | 1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Oh! Wow, what a policy, but still check up to know if your school does have this policy or not. And if you do pay then you might as well go get all the benefits associated with the payment!

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ShiftingSand offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (29 minutes after post)

I remember this when I was in school too. Its a bit ridiculous really. If you talk to the principal/dean I’m sure they can work something out. Otherwise you can appeal to the school board.

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Pink Freud offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
Spokane, WA, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (32 minutes after post)

I agree with you, it’s stupid. Unfortunately, that’s how bureaucracy works, though. When I transferred out of high school b/c I was being bullied and transferred into the community college’s GED program my school district gave me the exit code “school’s not for me” even though I spent my entire time in their system fighting for the right to an education. Only after sending them a letter with proof that I had earned my GED elsewhere would they change that to something a little more appropriate and complimentary.

Also, while attending a school in that district, they had us building birdhouses which they sold. They didn’t let the students keep the work they did. I told them I wouldn’t partake in their sweatshop.

My point is, that I think sometimes teachers and administrators think they can take advantage of their students b/c, in their eyes, “your just a student, what can you do?” I suggest you talk to your parents a/b the fees and see what they make of it.

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charlieboy08 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

I agree, this is pretty goofy. I had to pay something, but nowhere near the same amount and I didn’t walk at graduation and never attended prom.

Check it. If it’s true, appeal it. You may need your parents to help with this if you are under 18.

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