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hey i need advice i am being bullyed at school and i dont know what to do about it i have started cuting myself and everything.

this freaking girl is a senior and im a 8th grader and the stress is geting to me and my school work. i just dont know what to do and i need some kind of advice.

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jim456 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Make some friends with some Seniors and they will protect you.

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tonyMetalhead offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (5 minutes after post)

its time to really stand up for yourself so you can stop being a target.tell her off,fight back if you can or tell a counselor/teacher about it.just anyway way you can think off to fight back & defend yourself. you have to take action to make it stop as soon as possible.

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1 year, 7 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Don’t keep it quiet. In fact, the more public you make it, the most likely itl stop. And shel probably even be ashamed of it. But whatever happens, please don’t keep the problem to yourself.

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DazeofPurplehaze offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Well I’m not sure if this would be the right thing to do in a female situation, so this might sound out of the question, but in my experience once they know they can get to you anything you say isn’t going to stop them, you need to make a “physical statement.” You might get your *** kicked but they’ll stop and as long as you don’t totally freak out, you’ll earn some respect, especially since shes a senior and you’re an 8th grader.. I’m near positive she’ll back off if she really has a low enough self esteem to pick on someone 4/5 years younger. A stern punch to the face should do. Or maybe go to higher authority, haven’t personally tried that though, I imagined it could lead to threats or more bullying if they find out you did, but then again the fact that shes much older will probably prevent that.. but thats just a guess

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jamesthefergus offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (43 minutes after post)

dont take it out on yourself and tell a teacher or adult you shouldnt have to deal with it on your own stay positive

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123abc123abc offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

talk to your teacher about your situation she would understand and help you out and you dont need to be afaid she wont tell any one

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