Love help: So i need some major help, to make the story short i messed up

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So i need some major help, to make the story short

i messed up on an epic level and I need a way to show my fiance what she means to me, but all i’m doing is drawing a blank. any ideas? anything? all i need is a push in the right direction

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 minutes after post)

what did you do?

Help me with: Looking for a song.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (5 minutes after post)

lied, and got found out, but she’s going to give me another chance if i can show her what i mean to her. she means everything to me, my life is drastically better with her in it and i don’t want to lose that.

Help me with: this is my first step on bettering myself and getting rid of this so I don’t lose the woman i love.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (6 minutes after post)

It has to be something really thoughtful - something that shows that you listen to her and value her opinion and feelings. If you want to buy her a gift, spend some time thinking hard about something she’s mentioned liking or something that is meaningful for her that is not something that interests you (this will make the point that what she cares about is important just because it’s HER that cares about it - regardless of what you think). If you really screwed up, it’s got to be something that demonstrates a level of caring that will surprise her.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Luke.XIII wrote:
lied, and got found out, but she’s going to give me another chance if i can show her what i mean to her. she means everything to me, my life is drastically better with her in it and i don’t want to lose that.

ha, it’s not anonymous anymore :P

Help me with: this is my first step on bettering myself and getting rid of this so I don’t lose the woman i love.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

she wants me to do something to show her what she means, not so much a gift but a gesture

Help me with: this is my first step on bettering myself and getting rid of this so I don’t lose the woman i love.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (18 minutes after post)

no worries, its not like we know who you are anyway.

what did you lie about…?

do something big. something she maybe wanted you to do for a while that you never did. you know her, we dont, so we cant really give you good ideas unless we know more abotu the situation

Help me with: Looking for a song.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Make some change that will mean something to her. give up something that bothers her. Start something new that she’s wanted you to start. Show her that you want a life with her by making a change that will make her life better.

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