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Marriages crumble these days because of the people in them. People marry too quickly, and for the wrong reasons. That, and many people just don’t have the will power to work through a problem - they would rather just give up.

The secret to dating is not to think about it. I think you should keep in mind that every good relationship begins with friendship. That should be the foundation. What you should look for first is friendship with a guy or two. Don’t start thinking about the romantic stuff until later.

Nothing is ever guaranteed in life, because change is always present. But change isn’t bad, it’s just how you deal with it. Marriage is all about loving, giving, sacrificing, and working together with someone to make life a better experience for both involved. As long as you love the person, and they love you, then your future marriage will survive anything.

People throw the word “love” around all the time these days. Love isn’t just to feel romantic about someone, and it’s not just about being someone’s sibling or friend. It is truly giving everything you are to that person you love. It is the absolute ability to sacrifice everything you have to make sure that other person lives happily. Love makes both people grow in the relationship to be better people and to become more wise. That is the real intention of a marriage, and when two people honestly love each other in this way, it always lasts the tests of life and time. Just make sure you enter into a lifelong relationship wisely. Let your heart guide you. Don’t be afraid to get hurt. It stings at first, but you grow and learn from it which is absolutely necessary to finding “the one” later on :)

this is really an unfortunate that ur society is facing such issue. but if u see the society of eastern where we get married to a girl and until the death we are committed to wives.this is almost 95% ratio of our society.
If u really facing such mistrust there u may find an eastern guy to be settled with him for lifetime.
or may I help u in this regard???

The eastern world does seem to value commitment more than the western. Though I don’t think all of her problems can be solved by marrying an Eastern man, Zahid lol. She’s not on help.com to find a date.