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Should I be more in pain,agony,down-feeling to get more symphaty,attention?

where would it get me -in the end-I can become like that fo good!( not that I’m not feeling down always,just not showing,trying not to) I noticed ,throught out my life, that people who are complaning -gets better of! At working place -let him/her..not feeling well, or we have to (?) help him/her because he/she is so down or something..!But ,it’s might be the true,not have to, because me or the other one are not ’screaming’ about it then we are ‘happy over the rainbow’?! Why do people respond to other one suffering like bee on a honey- it’s like circus is in town lets go!And the ones who run usually are NOT running because they care!! but to get ‘high’, to fulfill they need, so they can say _ ha! she/he is in pain! goood!I’m not the only one!,it’s like they are injoing it! it is disquasting. human turpitude ,illness. And why ARE they so much in that complaining mood, why the need to get THAT kind of attancion?!- the ones who do that?! Aren’t they got tired of that?ever?! I do understand lots of kind of pain, suffer, misury,loneliness,….I’ve been there,still am.I really wish to help-because I feel/felt it. But in the same time -if it is continuesly complaning - I wish to say - just shoot yourself and help this world! I don’t know am I angry,dissapointed, frustrated,or what?!(sorry for the spelling!)

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ellagada offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (25 minutes after post)

DPT wrote:
Quit complaining.

you think? maybe. somewhere have to tell what is bothering me.
maube it ’s sounds that way,complaning.

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neowraith offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (48 minutes after post)

I don’t think DPT understood your post very well. I must admit I also had a little trouble understanding it. You are from Hungary?

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ellagada offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

neowraith wrote:
I don’t think DPT understood your post very well. I must admit I also had a little trouble understanding it. You are from Hungary?

50 kilomters from it Subotica Serbia
Yes, I know I have trouble saying it out what is bothering or anything. Use to not to And, it is more difficult because I’m thinking in three languages

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neowraith offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 36 minutes after post)

Three languages, wow. I struggle to express myself in one.

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ellagada offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

did you understand something what I wrote in this post?
If so, could you say something about it?

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neowraith offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 47 minutes after post)

You get irritated with people who complain and get so much attention? I think I understand what you are saying. It is hard sometimes to be sympathetic even if you know how the person in pain must be feeling.

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ellagada offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

IF it is going on- and on..no end..day after day..Try to help,I really try to help,but to those people it seems it’s their soul-food is complaning, like they don’t REALLY want help

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ellagada offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

and always that painfull look on their face!! Where is the will to live?!

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