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My boyfriend has a tumblr and I do not.

One of my friends told me that he reposted a picture of some random girl and commented on how pretty she was…he did that twice. What should I do?

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☆★space⋆junk. offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Hmm…I’m not sure! My partner makes comments about ladies who are pretty and I don’t mind that at all because it’s an observation. I do the same about guys too.
I would probably speak to him about it, without anger - just keep calm and enquire about what happened. There might be a perfectly reasonable explanation into it :-)x

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Break up and move to an island where you are the only person on it.

What do you expect us to say? He finds women attractive… so what? Would you prefer he put Brad Pitt on there and comment how cute he looks?

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1 year, 6 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Post a picture of some guy and say he’s really cute….? See how he responds, and if he’s upset then ask him how he thinks him doing the same thing makes you feel… If he doesn’t respond at all then he’s not showing interest… meaning something’s up…

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Anonymous #
1 year, 6 months ago (23 minutes after post)

overreaction much seriously get a grip, its not like hes cheating on you. its only a photo

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1 year, 6 months ago (31 minutes after post)

It’s really hard to find a guy that will only show interest in you. 0.00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001% of guys will ONLY show interest in you and not find ANYONE else attractive. Only that percentage will not desire sleeping with other women. If you have a huge problem with it, confront him. Tell him you want him to keep his opinions to himself if he’s willing to do that for you. You’re young right? As you get older you become more mature about things like this, not worth getting jealous over because you have your opinions and desires and he has his.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (59 minutes after post)

I have to say, as a married man, it is simply not in my nature not to ‘notice’ a pretty lady. That does not make me some sort of sex-crazed monster: It simply means I see the beauty in (or about) prople. The fact is, I enjoy being able to make a lady smile. If being honest with a lady and telling her I find her (hair/dress/rings/eyes/whatever) pretty does that, then why not? I can make someone happy simply by reminding them how nice they are. I love to be smiled at after paying someone a compliment.

That does not mean I am going to start sleeping with them.

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Burnaby, BC, CA | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 55 minutes after post)

Nothing wrong with looking only when its touching time….

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