I’m in love with someone that likes me but we agreed not to be with each other right now.
I go to school in a different state than he does. We went to middle school and high school together. We also worked together at the same place for about a year. When we interacted under those settings, I didn’t like him in a romantic way. I don’t think he did either. However, over the years, we’ve been talking online and keeping up our communication that way. He and I have a unique friendship where I am able to talk about almost anything with him. A year and a half ago, I told him that I liked him and he said that he wasn’t exactly sure how he felt. He just kept saying, “i don’t know, I don’t know.” I told him that if he felt different then he should tell me. Well, over the summer (the date that was a year from my college graduation) I told him that I still felt the same way. The only reason why I told him was because I felt that some of our conversations hinted at mutual feelings between us. Sure enough, he told me that he liked me too. He didn’t want to do the long distance relationship though. I have done LDRs before and they are not fun. So, I told him that I didn’t want to do a LDR right now either. Well, I’m approaching my graduation (in about 7 months) and I don’t know what’s going to happen for us now. I will be continuing with my education but much closer to home. It’s about 5 hours away instead of 2 plane rides and a 4 hr drive. He keeps telling me, “if it’s meant to be, it will be.” The sad thing is that I want it to work out between us so badly. I know that I shouldn’t get so worked up about this because there is a chance that me or him would find someone else. I don’t know what will happen between us. We talk about having the same outlook in life. We have similar life values, beliefs, and want similar things in life. This is new for me and if it should work out then.. I suppose I should be patient. Oh.. why is it like this?
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