Love help: i im young and dont know what love is but i think that i am in love with my now exboyfriend. - Help.com

allycat173
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i im young and dont know what love is but i think that i am in love with my now exboyfriend.

he was older than me but we got along so well and i thought he loved me to but then he cheated on me and we broke up. now i feel like i could even forgive him if only he would come back and just hug me. i need his love and attention so badly. my life is so cold and i need something… someone. help

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Mei Eishi offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 9 months ago (25 minutes after post)

is that you in your avatar? you are in search of someone to hold onto and to know that you have there for you. that is what most mature guys strive to be. i think that you may have a grasp on what love is more than you think. Remember that no one really knows what love is, its impossible to describe so dont try to figure it out. i think that you may not need him specifically but rather you need to feel protected and cared for. look around and love will find you!

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jimbo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 9 months ago (8 hours, 8 minutes after post)

no leave him now

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allycat173 offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 2 years, 9 months ago (16 hours, 36 minutes after post)

im not giving him another chance because i dont trust him but i want to sooo badly. and yes that is me in my avatar

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Mei Eishi offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 2 years, 9 months ago (19 hours, 4 minutes after post)

I was checking because you are very beautiful! I dont think that you need him specifically which is why i would advise you to not take him back. I think you need some comfort right now and its hard when you cant seem to find anyone who will give it to you. You cannot rush love and it will find you so you cant burden yourself with searching for it. I hope that this advice helps you somewhat! Sometimes talking about what you are feeling can help offer comfort, if you are willing to give it a try, i will be listening.

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Arcane offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 8 months ago (1 day, 19 hours after post)

You are beautiful! And I’d go so far as to bet you’re out of his league anyway. I agree with Mei Eishi.

It just takes time. I understand, though… I’ve been there, too.

Hang in there.

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