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I’m a Mormon and I’m happy to answer questions!

Feel free to ask me questions about the faith but please be respectful. I know many of you have been annoyed by over-zealous members who try to shove the religion in your face, but I am not them and I’ve done nothing to wrong you. I love all different religions (and am knowledgeable about most), all people (I work with tons of gays and I adore them! Often more than straight people haha), all cultures, and all theories. I believe science and religion work together.

I am NOT an official voice of the church and many of my beliefs are my own, which the church has no official opinion on.

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sixtyone offline Verified User (5 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
San Clemente, CA, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (5 minutes after post)

I just actually have a question that I’ve never really had answered.

From what I’ve heard, the Mormon religion is basically Christianity, but instead of believing in just the Bible, you believe in the Book of Mormon? Which I think is all about how Jesus came to the United States. Of course you’re more family-oriented and moral-oriented, too.

Not sure if this is right or not, i’m just curious, thanks!

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Yes indeed! We believe in the Book of Mormon, which is the account of the Indians in Central America when Jesus appeared to him after his Resurrection. He basically did the same things there as in the Bible, but the Book of Mormon kind of ties everything together and answers questions that rose from the Bible.

Basically: there are many, many, many churches based on the Bible because the Bible can be interpreted many different ways. The Book of Mormon clarifies things the Bible says, though, so there is only one church that can possibly come from that. Only one interpretation. It makes it all much clearer.

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Araz offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

How do Mormons feel about the creators of South Park, Trey Parker and Matt Stone, creating a broadway musical about Mormons? I heard it was hilarious, but I haven’t seen it. I am curious, however, as to whether or not most Mormons are offended. I mean, just because you are a Mormon, doesn’t mean that I’m insinuating that you speak on behalf of all Mormons.

Basically, are you, personally, offended by the play?

Oh, and do you like Mitt Romney?

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (33 minutes after post)

haha actually I’ve seen parts of that musical! I was a little confused about what was offensive about it. We make movies making fun of OURSELVES and we’re much better at it haha

There was one song called “I Believe” and I was like “..I don’t even get what’s funny or offensive? Why is believe that Jews built boats and crossed the ocean any weirder than believing Noah or Christopher Columbus’s stories?”

I think it really depends on the person. Utah Mormons are proooobably offended (up there it seems you either have to A) be a very uptight, close minded Mormon or B) be a very disobedient one), but I wouldn’t worry about them. No one likes Utah Mormons haha
I personally am hard to offend. Acutally there was a whole talk in one of our recent church-wide conferences that told us that you CHOOSE to get offended and you should CHOOSE not to, so I guess that is just something many people don’t understand or remember.

I watch Family Guy haha so I guess I’m just not the type of person that finds such things offensive.

I do like Mitt Romney, but not because he’s Mormon. I actually wish he WASN’T Mormon because I know some idiots will vote for him purely because he’s Mormon and nothing bothers me worse than that. People should vote after being INFORMED, not just because they share a religion. I don’t like Huntsman. Oh and I would probably like Gingrich better if I felt like he was strong and confident enough to win.

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Mr_Grit offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Oh, I think Newt believes he’s strong and confident enough to win.

On the subject on if Jesus crossed the Atlantic personally:
Is it possible? Yes. But when did he do it? After his Resurrection? Why would he need a boat? He was in my understanding, he was a man-god, born of woman, suffered like other humans, was tempted by satan, and then after His crucifixion, became God-man. To be seated at the right hand.

But, it’s not what I have been taught. And I have always thought of the Mormon belief as to be more symbolic and allegorical in nature than to be an actual event.

And yes I know the story about the locusts and seagulls. ;) What I’m trying to express is perhaps they brought Jesus within their hearts and not physically? I guess that where my confusion stems.

Sorry if I made you uncomfortable and that was or is not my intention.

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 24 minutes after post)

We don’t believe he crossed the Atlantic, sorry if I confused you with that part. That’s a different part of the Book of Mormon where the Brother of Jared receives counsel from God to make ships. They are those who became the Indians.

I don’t know how much of the faith others see as symbolic. I know that much of it is, but much of it is also literal. It’s up to each person to study and determine that for themselves. I have a friend who views all religion as symbolic and I agree with him on many points, but I believe that there are many literal things in the scriptures, too.

I do know, though, that we believe Jesus physically appeared to the Indians (whom we know as Nephites and Lamanites). Here’s a representation of it: http://www.oneil.com.au/lds/pictures/…

Also here’s a video of pictures explaining what happened at that time:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yioom_…

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Mr_Grit offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

Thank you Mrs. Pianoman. I don’t share your view. I appreciate it, however. Thank you for sharing. Now I know a little more.

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Pink Freud offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 44 #
Spokane, WA, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

I’m going to try to ask this as respectfully as possible.

I’ve heard that people of Mormon faith wear “special” underwear. Is there any truth to that? If so, what purpose does it serve?

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

Mr_Grit wrote:
Thank you Mrs. Pianoman. I don’t share your view. I appreciate it, however. Thank you for sharing. Now I know a little more.

Thank you for being so respectful :) I appreciate it

Daft Puck wrote:
I’m going to try to ask this as respectfully as possible.

I’ve heard that people of Mormon faith wear “special” underwear. Is there any truth to that? If so, what purpose does it serve?

Yes, after we go through the temple we receive Garments. I don’t know the details as I have not been through the temple yet, but I know that they serve as a reminder of our Covenants with God that we make inside the temple.

There are certain times you can take them off (swimming, sports, sex, I think there are more but can’t think of them), but otherwise we are supposed to wear them day and night. That way they are always there and you can never forget who you are and what Covenants you have promised to honor.

They also have sleeves and go to the knees so you can’t wear them without being modest, which we find to be of extreme importance. We believe our bodies are temples and we are just borrowing them from God, so we are to treat them and the most important power we have (making life) with respect and dignity and always recognize how sacred they are.

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Pink Freud offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 44 #
Spokane, WA, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

Mrs. Hasta Pianoman wrote:

Mr_Grit wrote:
Thank you Mrs. Pianoman. I don’t share your view. I appreciate it, however. Thank you for sharing. Now I know a little more.

Thank you for being so respectful :) I appreciate it

Daft Puck wrote:
I’m going to try to ask this as respectfully as possible.

I’ve heard that people of Mormon faith wear “special” underwear. Is there any truth to that? If so, what purpose does it serve?

Yes, after we go through the temple we receive Garments. I don’t know the details as I have not been through the temple yet, but I know that they serve as a reminder of our Covenants with God that we make inside the temple.

There are certain times you can take them off (swimming, sports, sex, I think there are more but can’t think of them), but otherwise we are supposed to wear them day and night. That way they are always there and you can never forget who you are and what Covenants you have promised to honor.

They also have sleeves and go to the knees so you can’t wear them without being modest, which we find to be of extreme importance. We believe our bodies are temples and we are just borrowing them from God, so we are to treat them and the most important power we have (making life) with respect and dignity and always recognize how sacred they are.

Oh ok, I get it now. Thanks for sharing. :)

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

Thanks for asking! I’m actually finding this quite enjoyable thanks to how respectful you guys are being. :)

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Pink Freud offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 44 #
Spokane, WA, US | 1 year, 6 months ago (1 hour, 49 minutes after post)

Mrs. Hasta Pianoman wrote:
Thanks for asking! I’m actually finding this quite enjoyable thanks to how respectful you guys are being. :)

You’re welcome. :)

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Mr_Grit offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 6 months ago (2 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Well I’m R.C.
I too get, “You’re not a real Christian.” So I know how that feels. :)

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 days, 5 hours after post)

My friend just put up a profile on the website and I thought it was interesting because it addressed one of your questions about the play! It’s in the “How I Live My Faith” section. Feel free to read the rest, though, Kayela has a unique mind and I love to hear what she thinks!
http://mormon.org/me/19PB/

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namewithnoface offline Verified User (5 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Warminster, PA, US | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 days, 5 hours after post)

you should go see The Book of Mormon or broadway

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 months, 4 weeks after post)

I dislike the commercials because I’m well adjusted, love my family, help my neighbor and follow the commandments and NO!! I am not a Mormom. Mormons seem so riteous to me. The commercials really irk me. Please just leave us alone.

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I’m a Mormon and I hate the “I’m a Mormon” commercials.

Just thought you guys should know not all of us agree with them. They just feel weird to me…like we’re a business trying to sell a product.

Anyway, the real reason they made the commercials (if you wanted to know) is that they wanted to dispel myths and misconceptions. We’re often portrayed as very abnormal people (haha can’t tell you how many times people have asked if we have horns..) and the ads are there to show that we are all normal people and have different hobbies, jobs, family types, and personalities. I agree with what they’re TRYING to do..I just feel like people don’t often understand what they’re for.

Anyway, feel free to ask me questions about the faith but please be respectful. I know many of you have been annoyed by over-zealous members who try to shove the religion in your face, but I am not them and I’ve done nothing to wrong you. I love all different religions (and am knowledgeable about most), all people (I work with tons of gays and I adore them! Often more than straight people haha), all cultures, and all theories. I believe science and religion work together.

I am NOT an official voice of the church and many of my beliefs are my own, which the church has no official opinion on.

PromisingMoon offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Hey there! I know I’m a little late on the bandwagon, but I saw this post today and was hoping I could still ask a few questions…?

First of all, I want you to know that I am really open to religion too! I was born and raised Jewish, but have been searching and learning about different religions for years now. I even went to a Mormon Church with a friend and her family, so I am very open to other people’s beliefs and views, and thankful to the people that are kind about answering question without putting a “word of G-d” in them.

I also want to thank you for opening your trusting arms to the internet’s questions on something that is very near and dear to you. This means a lot.

From what I understand about the basics of Christianity, and all Christ-based religions, one can only enter the kingdom of G-d (Heaven) by fully accepting not only G-d but Jesus Christ as well. Additionally, there are certain things that can stop you from going to Heaven, or sins, such as killing, stealing, adultery, and the like - correct? And, adding even more, as “Christ-like” people, it is expected to do your best to better your community with acts of kindness and volunteering?

Assuming this statement is correct, I will now ask my big question.

In regards to the Judgement Days, What about the people that accepted Christ and his father but did bad things? And, because both the Bible and the Torah tell us that we are all G-d’s children, what about the wonderful people that always focused on bettering others before themselves? Do they not get to enter the Kingdom of G-d simply because they didn’t accept Jesus as their Savior?

I understad if this is too much, or you do not feel comfortable answering these questions. I hope you have a beautiful day!

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Well I will see if I can answer it simply, but bear with me because that’s a loaded question!

This diagram will help you understand what I’m saying http://rogerdhansen.files.wordpress.c…

We believe that after life, we go to a temporary Spirit Heaven or Spirit Prison until Christ Comes again and we are resurrected into our bodies. In the Spirit World, even right now, people are being taught about Christ. Everyone who didn’t get to learn about Him will be/is being taught about Him. In the Spirit World, everyone gets the choice to come unto Christ once they have been taught about Him, then we go on to the resurrection and final judgement.

After the final judgement, where we will be judged by our actions but mostly by the desires of our hearts, we will be assigned to a Kingdom. The Celestial Kingdom is the highest glory, where we can dwell with Heavenly Father himself as well as Jesus and the Holy Ghost. You get there by following the commandments, accepting Christ and his Atonement, and fulfilling the ordinances necessary to enter in there (baptism, marriage in the temple, and other temple ordinances…if you died without them, those that are still on earth can be baptized/married/receive other ordinances for you in your name and you can choose to accept those proxy ordinances) These are the most righteous of people and they are all happy and feel comfortable among each other.

In the Terrestrial Kingdom, the second highest glory, there are those who are good people and lived good lives but who didn’t accept Christ’s gospel. They live with the presence of Jesus but not the Father. They are comfortable where they are, though, as all people would be. (someone who’s not very religious isn’t as comfortable around people who are uber religious, but instead tend to like others like them, right? Everyone will be comfortable where they are.)

The Telestial Kingdom, the lowest kingdom, is where the “bad” people go. People who lived dishonest, selfish lives. They live in the presence of the Holy Ghost, but not the Father or the Son. Again, though, everyone is where they feel most comfortable. These people wouldn’t want to be around the good people and wouldn’t want to be around Jesus or Heavenly Father.

There is also a place called Outer Darkness, which is the place most people would assume to be Hell. Heavenly Father’s plan is all about us getting to choose, so for those who choose not to be saved and in His presence, this is where they go. I will admit that I know little about Outer Darkness because I never intend to go there and I know that few will. The way it’s been explained to me is that the only people who go there are those who know God…as in they’ve SEEN Him and they know without a doubt he exists and they deny Him. They are those who know God exists but don’t want anything to do with Him, so they go to Outer Darkness, where His presence isn’t felt.

I hope that I was able to explain that well for you. It’s a lot to explain online, but if any of it confused you, feel free to ask!

The main thing I want you to take away from this is that we believe that everyone has many, many chances to accept Jesus and His gospel. We are blessed with the gift of agency, though, and will never be forced into a place where we don’t want to be, so we will then be put where we feel we belong. We will spend eternity with people who believe and feel as we do! There can be no better plan, I think!

Oh, and Celestial inhabitants can visit Terrestrial and Terrestrial can visit Telestial.

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PromisingMoon offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Thank you very much for this explanation :] It helped a lot!

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Any time! There’s no greater joy for me than explaining Christ’s gospel. :)

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Hi, I know many Mormons, they have been some of the nicest people I’ve ever met. I was just curious whether you knew about all of those I’m a Mormon commercials I’ve been seeing on youtube and the TV? I was just browsing youtube and I even found one about my uncle! Do you know what thats about? I really like your avatar by the way.

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

haha well actually this post started out as me saying I hate those commercials! The point of them is to just kinda show people that we’re normal people because there are a lot of misconceptions about us…I’ve been asked if I have horns and if we sacrifice people in our temples!

The intent of the commercials is good, but I think that they’re just kinda awkward. Like we’re trying to sell our church or something! But, you know, whatevs. Apparently it is working a little bit, though it is also annoying some people haha

Thanks! I like my avatar too haha

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Oh haha I didn’t know thats how it started. Cool, I think it is a little awkward too, but good.

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

haha well they did their job just now! Got you to talk to a Mormon about our religion ;)

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E M offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

How do you feel about the Mormon belief that women cannot higher ranking spiritual leaders in the church?

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

I feel totally okay about that! Men are given the Priesthood..that’s their duty. Women are given the ability to bear children and that’s our responsibility! Now don’t be thinking I’m all about the woman being submissive and all she’s good for is having babies…I intend to work danggit! But I do believe that being a mother is the most important thing I could ever do. I don’t know why people can possibly act like being a mother is settling for something less than what they could do! There is no more wonderful thing in this world than to raise a kid.

As far as only men having the priesthood…they need it! I love men even more than women (women are too dramatic for me haha), but I can’t deny that it seems easier for women to be spiritual and such. The priesthood helps men to serve others and to feel that closeness to Heavenly Father that doesn’t come as naturally to them.

I’m very traditional, I suppose. I WANT my man to make decisions and to be the head of the family. He and I will be equal partners, but he will represent the two of us as the head of my family. Same goes for church.

None of our leadership is hierarchical. Men are our leaders, but every time someone is called to a position in our church, we are all asked to sustain and show support for that person. If we have a problem with them being in that position, we can let the leaders know and they can decide if our concern is something that they should keep that person out of that position for.

No one in our church is in a leadership position for power. That’s not what it’s about at all. I think that people who tend to be insulted by it being only men are people who view it as a position of power…which it’s not.

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E M offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Thank you for your reply. I was very interested to hear a women’s take on this. I wouldn’t say that I am insulted by it because women have a right to choose to be part of any belief system they want. I would say that it concerns me when any group is excluded from something because of their gender, race, etc.

You say that it is not a position of power to you which I don’t completely understand. I respect that you don’t mind or want your man being the head of the family and the church leaders to be men. But what if another woman did not feel the same way you do? Would that mean that being Mormon is just not the faith for her?

I do understand (although not necessarily agree with) the belief that child rearing is most important thing a woman can do- not in a demeaning way- but in a highly honorable way.

However, there is always exceptions to every rule. I suppose if a woman chose not to have children then that would be a very un-Mormon choice- since child bearing is so central to your beliefs. But what if a woman cannot bear children?

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

We choose what we are offended by..so if a woman is offended that men are in charge, either she needs to humble herself or she is in the wrong religion. Obviously I believe the humbling herself option is the right one, but the most wonderful thing about God’s plan for us the is ability to choose for ourselves what we want and how we are, so no one’s gonna force her to stay.

Child bearing is an extremely personal thing and it is between you, your spouse, and God. ONLY you three can decide what’s right.
Personally, I plan to wait at least a couple of years after I’m married to have kids but I would consider never having children selfish on my part.

As far as not being able to have kids, no one will ever judge that person for that! We also wouldn’t judge them for not adopting. Perhaps the reason that person is unable to have kids is because they have other things they need to do in life, we don’t know! We would never dream of condemning a person who simply aren’t able to have kids.

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E M offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Again thanks for answering. I don’t have any further questions.

But just to clarify I wasn’t suggesting that a woman would be judged by the church for her inability to conceive- i just wondered what then might she do? I suppose what I was getting at was that maybe a woman like that would be a good choice for a leadership position in the church. But you’ve cleared everything up for me.

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman offline Verified User (5 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Oh I see! Yeah most people who can’t conceive that I know of have tried to adopt or foster kids, but some of them just dedicate their lives to other things. It’s up to every person to decide what they’re to do with their lives, hopefully with the guidance of Heavenly Father.

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